If you don't accept what Charles has to say, then really...suck it up and grow a pair, or leave the family. There is no need to fight and say "alli did this" "she did that" "she doesn't care about him." Or "Charles doesn't love her" "he has fans and people to sleep with" "he hates her body". Really. Shut up. When Charles is ready to talk about this he is. Maybe Charles didn't want those VLOGS up anymore either. Change is a good thing. Everyone needs to move on at some point. Of course it's hard. A lot of people have gone through divorce whether your an adult, or a kid who's parents done it. (Same thing with relationships.) it's hard to say what even happened because it makes you extremely upset. Just deal with it and leave Charles alone.