Life is an evolution never a revolution. Everything is going where we've never been before. The relationship between man and women is also going through this transition;especially in the "western- modern- civilized-highly advanced world'. Many of us,especially males,are not comfortable with this change. We are afraid of losing control and resort to pettiness and foul behavior. It is naive to base and predict relationship dynamics based on previous times,morals and attitudes.Take a deep breath,adjust and move on.