[The autistic] are socially clumsy when asked to communicate in ‘non-autistic’ ways. We don’t mean to be. It was easy to believe that we lacked empathy. But what we lack is the bit of the brain that can easily see your face/hear your voice tone. We learn to ask good questions about how you are, and really think about the answers. I’ve so many wonderful, warm, caring autistic friends – whether verbal or not, whether of high IQ or not. Many of us are doing specialised jobs of every kind in society – from Clergy and artists to poets and authors. From childminders and parents to top scientists and engineers. Many others are denied a job because of myths and misunderstandings.
Alas, in some church situations, old myths may still abound. In some churches we’re told that people like us can’t be trusted because we have a ‘mental problem’ of some sort. That if we encounter prejudice or predatory behaviour, they cannot trust our evidence because autistic people are irrational, paranoid, lacking the mental capacity, etc. Remember how women were dismissed as being ‘irrational’? It’s the same for autism. If even one autistic person out of 100 does something amiss, it’s often assumed the other 99 are just like that. Not so. Respecting differences and different needs is so important.
I’m just one person, helping bring together groups supporting women, and the LGBT community , and the minority ethnic communities, and people disabled by their environment etc….and saying as fellow Christians, “You are loved. God wants us to learn from one another, to cherish each others’ friendship and uniqueness… to walk in the light of Christ towards a world where we grow in faith, love and respect for one another.” That’s a world worth praying for.