Grell is a guy who wants and dresses as a woman, how can you people just fight over this? Let em be who he wants. Everyone jn manga and anime calls him a guy, at least in the subbed one. I believe the creator even said he was either transgendered or a transvestite but i dont know the difference. He cross dresses, even in that play they all did, and obesses over guys. He, although, had a small thing for madam red because he liked her style of red and he felf her pain kr not being able to bear children. Grell cant have, give birth really, children because hes a guy. Meanjng hes a dude whk refers himself as a woman and likes guys but can make exeptions to women. In one of the ovas, he and madam red were technically a thing. I think his guy thing started with william t. Spears, though. Now shut up, believe what yku want, and listen. And sorry about the spslling im using a tablet..