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Just a girl in bay area trying to rule the world :-)
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Pls follow +Ragini Zutshi Anand​ cause goals! 💯 She just needs 10 more followers. :) So pls reshare this post if u have already followed her. Thanks a lot if you do! (:
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Topic: Teenage relationships or pre-teen ones
Hey! Please read this with an open mind. If you don't agree with me, it's fine, but don't send hate!
So this topic has been on mind for quite a while.
I feel that teenage relationships/pre-teen relationships are wrong, because one is at a very initial stage of life then. I am not saying that you cannot or do not fall in love during this time, because love doesn't have any boundaries or dimensions! You can fall in love in any way at anytime.
On the other hand, handling relationships at this stage is a very crucial task. One never knows whether those feelings will last or not.
We all know that boys take longer to mature than girls. But it's also a fact that girls tend to become really serious and continuously dream of huge decisions, such as marriage!
Again, I'm not saying that you cannot fall in love in your teen years. You very much can! But sometimes, only sometimes those feelings don't last. If you do fall in love, don't get into a relationship. You can maintain friendship with that person and see if you still have feelings after you turn eighteen or graduate from school! It's up to you to control your feelings till then. I know it's difficult, but it's a wise step you must take.
I'm against these sort of relationships because many times, couples end up hurting each other, intentionally or unintentionally(to be taken as a mistake committed out of immaturity). And these blunders leave a huge impact on the other!
Moreover, the person who gets hurt begins blaming the other a lot, and may take drastic steps! They also have a tendency to stop believing in love, and trust itself!
"I don't trust anyone." Imagine a 12 or 13 year old saying this. It sounds really silly! I don't mean to be harsh. Trust me. I'm saying this for your own good.
Also, since one is going through puberty during these years, one might incline towards things like intimacy. There is nothing wrong in this also. It's just a way of expressing love. But, you are not old enough for it. Your body is going through a huge transformation. And so, it is wrong! Maybe you do it once, or twice. But all of a sudden, it becomes a habit. And then, there is no going back. One act of physicality can lead to another. So please be careful! Don't fall into a trap by saying or hearing that it's natural!
A couple of days ago, I saw a 13 year old post something like, "Kids my age are into sexual talks, but I'm not. I'm just not interested. There might be something wrong with me." (Well of course you aren't. You are just a kid. Don't start making judgements on your sexuality because of this.)
Such relationships may or may not work out. If they do, well and good. I hope you last! If not, it's not the end of the world. You'll find love again. At the right time. If you already are in such a relationship, then be ready for the consequences. Don't end up blaming the other or even yourself for that matter, if things don't turn out in your favour.
If you happen to be in your teen or childhood years, know that this is a stage of making friends. Lots of friends. It becomes difficult to make friends later on. Your school years are there to groom you for the future and nurture your talents. Or if that sounds boring, just go and watch cartoons.
Peace!
My next topic will be about sensitivity.
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