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Out of the Wild - Part 2
(Continued from Part 1 )  In 2012
I moved into my own apartment in Los Angeles. 
After subletting and staying in other people’s homes for years, I
finally had a space I could make a home.  I got the
keys to apartment 206 on my 26 th birthday, and it
felt li...
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Out of the Wild - Part 1
I’m about to
turn 30 years old, and I’ve been thinking a lot about Chris McCandless.  The story of Chris McCandless and Into the Wild (the book and the film ) have woven through my life for many years.   In 1990,
Chris graduated from Emory University. 
He w...
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Out of the Wild - Part 2
(Continued from Part 1)  In 2012
I moved into my own apartment in Los Angeles. 
After subletting and staying in other people’s homes for years, I
finally had a space I could make a home.  I got the
keys to apartment 206 on my 26 th birthday, and it
felt lik...
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To Ghost or Not To Ghost (A Millennial Question)
I’m fascinated by language and how it evolves, especially when we feel the need to create a new word. Sometimes I see clear connections between events and the words they create: cameras on cell phones became the norm, making it easier to take/share self-po...
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Flirting and Other Fine Arts - Part 1
I used to think I didn't know how to flirt (not that I'd say I'm an expert now) but I had an "A-Ha!" moment a few years ago: I was at my hometown bar with friends and I was chatting with The Hot Bartender.  We were friendly and would chat whenever I came in...
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Flirting and Other Fine Arts - Part 2
(Continued from Part 1) The intense nervousness is sort of adorable, but also frustrating.  At the start of his last day Boyfriend told me that he was leaving and why.  My friend had been pointing out for weeks how he was telling me personal information tha...
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Clean Slate 2016
Over the past year, people have talked to me about “making space.”  Was I making space for someone new?  Was my friendship with Bachelor #9 allowing space for the relationship I’m looking for?  Though I hoped I was making/allowing space, but how do you know...
Clean Slate 2016
Clean Slate 2016
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Five Things I Learned in 2015 (Part 1)
Dear blog, I’ve missed you!  Sorry I’ve been away for so long, I’ve wanted to write for a while and didn’t
know what to say.  A lot has happened since
May, so to catch up I made a list of Five Things I Learned in 2015: 1. My heart moves at its own speed :  ...
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Five Things I Learned in 2015 (Part 2)
(Continued from Part 1) 3. Introvert’s Guide to Meeting People: saying ANYTHING is better than
nothing.   I’ve always struggled
with initiating conversations with strangers. 
Once a conversation is going I have no problem talking to new people, but I felt l...
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My 30 Before 30 List
My 29th birthday is at the end of the month (May 31st, I'm a Gemini and yes that explains some things).  My anxiety about turning 30 started when I turned 28, so my approaching 29th birthday only increased it.  I decided I needed to find a way to get excite...
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