If I could be so bold as to make a suggestion... "tactful" should be removed from the subtitle of this group and replaced with "biblical" or "loving" or "powerful" or something. Today, "tactful" is simply a stand-in for inoffensive, which isn't our goal.
Josh, I think you may have confused side effects of the Gospel, for the purpose of the Gospel.If we lure people to Christ with the promise of a better life, they are likely to feel deceived in the end. Leaving their later end worst than the first.
Men, take note: "Not until very late in my service as a pastor did the question of whether and what authority a pastor has trouble me. I now--living within a pastorless situation--have begun--only begun--to realize that not recognizing the existence & function of pastoral authority both corrupted and crippled my ministry."