❖❤❖ MARRY 6 TYPES OF PEARLS ❖❤❖
1. ❤ The Patient ❤
The woman who remains patient in all circumstances,and never whines, moans and complains When some trouble or affliction hits her, she turns to ALLAH (Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala) for help.
✦“Surely, Allaah is with those who are As Saabiroon (the patient)”[al-Anfaal 6:46]
✦“But if you endure patiently, verily, it is better for As Saabiroon (the patient)”[al-Nahl 16:126]
✦“but give glad tidings to As Saabiroon (the patient). Who, when afflicted with calamity, say: ‘Truly, to Allaah we belong and truly, to Him we shall return.’ They are those on whom are the Salawaat (i.e. who are blessed and will be forgiven) from their Lord, and (they are those who) receive His Mercy, and it is they who are the guided ones”[al-Baqarah 2:155-157]
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2. ❤ The Protector ❤
The woman who protects her husband's wealth & her chastity when he is away from home like a Muhsanah. When he returns , she does not burden him with the day's problems ,but listens attentively to his needs and does her best to take his tiredness away.
✦“Muhsanah means the woman who is chaste and pure … one who is chaste and protects her private parts from committing immoral acts, as in the aayah (interpretation of the meaning): ‘And Maryam, the daughter of ‘Imraan, who guarded her chastity…’ [al-Tahreem 66:12], meaning that she kept herself above suspicious actions and protected herself from immoral conduct.”
✦(lawful to you in marriage) are chaste women from the believers and chaste women from those who were given the Scripture (Jews and Christians) before your time…’ [al-Maa’idah 5:5]
3. ❤ The Lover ❤
The women who adores her husband & craves for his children to the extent that whenever her husband glances at her, Du'aa pours for her from the bottom of his heart.
✦"And among His signs is this, that He created for you mates(spouse) from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your hearts. Verily in that are signs for those who reflect." (Qur'an 30:21)
✦In the Qur'an, the marriage relationship is described as one with "tranquility," "love" and "mercy." Elsewhere in the Qur'an, husband and wife are described as "garments" for each other (2:187). Garments offer protection, comfort, modesty, and warmth. Above all, the Qur'an describes that the best garment is the "garment of God-consciousness-(taqwa)"
Nothing can illustrate the point better than the Qur'anic statement which describes the righteous people as those who pray:
✦"Rabba-na hab la-na min azwaji-na wa dhuriyyati-na qurrata a'yunin wa aj'al-na li al muttaqin imama"
"Our Lord! give us spouse and children who will be the joy( and the comfort ) of our eyes, and guide us to be models of righteous (make us Leader of God-concious people). " (Qur'an 25:74)
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4. ❤ The Good Natured ❤
The women who has an excellent reputation in society for being kind, caring & courteous to all. She is good with her neighbours & relatives & never backbites or displays jealousy.
✦Serve Allah, and join not any partners with Him; and do good- to parents, kinsfolk, orphans, those in need, neighbours who are near, neighbours who are strangers, the companion by your side, the wayfarer (ye meet), and what your right hands possess: For Allah loveth not the arrogant, the vainglorious;- (An Nisa 4:36)
5. ❤ The Content ❤
The women who never casts her eyes at material things and is content with whatever little her husabnd gives her.
She is thankful to him for every morsel that he feeds her, every clothe that he gives her , including the roof over her head.
She makes her gratefulness known to him in words & action and thus, soothes her husband's heart.
✦It was narrated that ‘Abd-Allaah ibn ‘Umar said: I heard the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: “Each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock. The ruler is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock. A man is the shepherd of his family and is responsible for his flock. A woman is the shepherd of her husband’s household and is responsible for her flock. A servant is the shepherd of his master’s wealth and is responsible for his flock.” He said: and I think he said, “A man is the shepherd of his father’s wealth and is responsible for his flock. Each of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock.” ❤❤ Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 583; Muslim, 1829.
6. ❤ The Pious ❤
The women who spends much of her day in Dhikr, tilaawat-e Qur'an & Salaah and her nights in praying Tahajjud & crying to ALLAH (Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala) for forgiveness. She encourages her husband to give Daw'ah in his spare time.
✦“But if you remain patient and become Al-Muttaqoon (the pious), not the least harm will their cunning do to you. Surely, Allaah surrounds all that they do” [Aal ‘Imraan 3:120]
✦Those who offer their Salaah (prayers) with all solemnity and full submissiveness” [al-Mu’minoon 23:1]
✈ Conclusion: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “A woman may be married for four things: her wealth, her lineage, her beauty, or her religious commitment. Choose the one who is religiously-committed, may your hands be rubbed with dust (i.e., may you prosper).” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5090; Muslim, 1466)
The purpose of marriage is not merely to satisfy one’s desires and enjoy intimacy, so that the man need care about nothing more than beauty; rather marriage is more sublime than that. So you should study the true qualities of your potential life-partner, those qualities that will make your life happy and calm, not a temporary happiness that will disappear as desire fades, leaving nothing but trouble and sadness after that. And Allaah knows best.
May Allah bless all present and future marriages with love, happiness, peace, and success. Inshallah,you will be blessed with God fearing spouse.