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xxxchurch, x3watch, x3pure, accountability software, Jesus loves porn stars
xxxchurch, x3watch, x3pure, accountability software, Jesus loves porn stars

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Friday Rant: Sex Is Not a Chore - [Note: On Fridays we sometimes post new rants from one of our writers, edited only for typos and spelling. This new series is not for those easily offended or for those who only like to play nice. So read this before you start posting your comments.] First, let me start by saying this post does not apply to anyone in an abusive relationship. If you are in one, please get the help you need in order to better your situation. This post is for the average, run ...

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5 Ways to Build Integrity - One thing I find in short supply at times is, unfortunately, integrity. I think that’s part of the reason we value it so much when we find someone who actually displays it. It’s a breath of fresh air. However, it’s one thing to know you might lack integrity in certain areas (like your sex life), but something else entirely to learn how to develop it. Integrity is about more than just doing the right thing.  It’s about building the kind of character that can survi...

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5 Reasons to Keep It Buttoned Up Until You Are Married - My friend Shellie R. Warren wrote a post talking about the advantages and/or disadvantages of having sex before marriage. It’s definitely worth checking out. But let’s be honest, most people are having sex in some version before marriage (yes, even Christians). To deny that is to live in a bubble. And I want to be transparent with you. I’m a pastor, a Christian, and a guy who had sex before he got married. And I wish I had heard more ...

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3 Ways Pornography Distorts Your View of Yourself - My wife is currently watching the TV show Once Upon a Time on Netflix. I haven’t watched a whole lot, but she explained one very interesting thing about the show’s story to me. The show’s characters are, for the most part, characters from fairy tales, Disney movies and other fantasy stories that are plopped in the modern world in a town called “Storybrooke.” But they have also lived in their fairytale worlds. Somehow they made it to Storyb...

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Is Life Better Without Porn? - Recently, one of the guys in the X3group I lead said something very interesting during his check-in. He was describing one of the challenges he faced in pursuing sexual purity: Not knowing what life would be like without porn. His statement left me virtually speechless. It was almost as if I stepped into a time machine and traveled back to the moment where I felt exactly that same sentiment. But today, my feelings are the complete opposite: I can’t imagine wha...

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Only 48 Hours Left - I started X3watch in 2004, back when we had Gateway, Compaq, and huge bulky PC computers. A lot has changed since then, but one thing still is true. People need other people. That is the core belief and thought behind X3watch and why it was needed in 2004, and is still needed in 2017. The way we all interact with the Internet and access the web has changed, but when it comes to life, from the very beginning of humanity, we were meant to be in relationship with one anoth...

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2 Ways to Improve Your Marriage - I thought marriage would come easily. I pictured a handsome man sweeping in to pick me up and make me whole. I guess I have Disney to blame for that – LOL! Obviously, that fairy tale was exactly that – a fairy tale. Marriage can be difficult, and there are times when I have struggled to even like my spouse. I want to have a better marriage. Here are two things I have learned that have helped and can improve your marriage: 1. Only God can complete you. The i...

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This is ruining your life - Letter to myself: Hey, I don;’t get it, I feel like it’s not me. The thought comes into my head, than BAM, it’s overtaken me. Your desire is so strong. You always come when I’m at my weakest…… as a THOUGHT. I have tried so many times to supress you but only last for maybe 3 days max. not even a week. But hey, this is it now you addict, people are addicted to all sorts of things but you, you’re the worst, a hidden sin which noone see’s. I need to get rid of you on...

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A Conversation About Fifty Shades Darker - Last week I wrote a blog post about my experience watching 50 Shades Darker with my wife Jeanette and what I learned from the movie. You can read that post here. Well since then I’ve received a ton of emails and comments on social about my decision to watch the movie and write that post. Some good, some not so good. Many people have said they can’t believe why I would go see the movie at all. Why would I take Jeanette? And so on. That being said, J...

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7 Intimacy Killers That Happen After Valentine’s Day - As I’ve interacted with couples from all over the world, I’ve found that many of the issues that ultimately lead to infidelity and divorce creep in unintentionally. People don’t usually set out to sabotage their marriage and wind up in divorce court, but small choices can ultimately lead to big disasters. Subtle poor choices along the way can pile up like a snowball rolling down a hill until it’s big enough to start an avalanche of cons...
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