I live in New Jersey though I travel frequently. I write, edit and read voraciously. I'm a sex columnist for Philadelphia City Paper and DAME. I blog about cupcakes at Cupcakes Take the Cake
. I've edited over 50 anthologies including Come Again: Sex Toy Erotica, The Big Book of Orgasms (my favorite!), Cheeky Spanking Stories, Best Bondage Erotica 2015 (and 2011-2014), Fast Girls, Orgasmic and many others. My writing has been published in Alternet Buzzfeed, Cosmopolitan, Elle.com, The Frisky, Glamour, Harper's Bazaar, Inked, Medium, New York Post, New York Observer, Refinery29, Salon, Slate, Thought Catalog, Time.com, Time Out New York, The Village Voice, The Washington Post and other publications. I teach erotic writing workshops at colleges, conferences, sex toy stores and online at LitReactor.com.