So you think it is wonderful that there is meat on the barbeque?
What would you say if it was human meat? Or cat meat?
If you feel disgusted now, why is that so? Who are we to judge what creature is allowed to die by our very hands, and what creature has to be protected? Eating cow while stroking your cat's head are what I'd call everyday's speciesism. And nobody ever notices!
Be at least grateful for the animals that have suffered from pain and anxiety while being bred and then slaughered to be there on your barbeque.
LIFE is wonderful. PAIN (which is necessarily involved in industrial farming) isn't. It's just not right.
(If anyone feels disturbed by this message - you might want to think about why this is disturbing. Perhaps you find the truth uncomfortable...?)