Honestly not sure what this is trying to say, it's a little bit confused. On the one hand, this kind of behaviour from men is termed abuse, but then the guy that didn't react positively was told to "relax". The presenters also said they were worried about getting assaulted or knifed, I'm not sure how that's realistic, it doesn't take a genius to figure out what men's reaction would be.
Is it a double standard? Not really. Take an unattractive woman or a male and then see the response change. The same double standard is shown by women towards attractive men versus unattractive men. Though perhaps not so much towards the same sex as you would get from men.