I didn't say anything about women being unfit for this or any other job. I just merely made a point that when we as society try to level something we approach it in the wrong ways. If I want to get my children into something I show them if they are interested in that topic then I help them pursue it. If they don't want to I move on, I don't give them anything extra to get them interested. That is all I was stating, I am sorry that you felt it was a attack against women.
I am sorry that you are having a hard time in school. I don't understand what you are talking about with the "boys only club", when i was in school 90% of the guys wanted a women in some the classes that lacked women because they were sick end tired of just talking to guys about their class and didn't like having to explain everything to women because they didn't understand. Not that women cannot understand it, its just they never learned because the don't want to. I know when I was in school I not only helped but got help from a couple of the women in my classes. The women I have been around in technology seem to be a bit more patient than the men. I also know that women and men who head into the tech field both men and women work hard to accomplish there goals.
As I said before I don't believe it is right to try to push a race, gender or other lacking minority into a field that they are not interested in. When I worked in a steel mill, there was very few women in that business. Why? Because women are not into that career. Nobody was pushing women to go get a job into a steel factory position, because 1 it would be a very hard sell. and 2 both a lot of men and women would quit shortly after they got started, creating a high turn over rate. All I am saying is if people are not interested in a certain field then there shouldn't be more of a "bonus" incentive to "Balance" out that field over what the normal incentives for anyone are.
If you work hard and constantly make improvements in your surroundings you will go far and succeed no matter what race, gender, or religion you are. People notice that attitude and either try to stop you or help you, but it is your choice who to listen to.