When there are two loving, caring, capable parents that want to be actively involved in their children’s lives after divorce, why would family court want to discourage that? Why should the default option not be a 50/50 split of parenting time? And if child support is necessary, why is there no accountability for how that money is actually spent? Women today are abusing a system designed a half century ago. Woman typically didn't work but stayed home and raised the kids while the father worked and was the sole breadwinner. Times have changed though, both parents typically work, and both parents share in the responsibilities of raising the children. So while woman have progressed over the last 50 years, what about us fathers? Wake up family court! Its not 1960. Father are capable and willing to have an active role in raising their kids after a divorce. And women are just as capable as men to get a job and support themselves.