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“Oh, here I am. I am home again.“

This is the thought that always pops into my mind the moment I settle into my workouts. Whether I’m dragging myself into the gym and picking up the weights, lacing up my shoes and going for a run, or simply taking a long walk at the nearby park… Here I am. I am home again.

There’s always a huge sense of relief, a big exhale. There’s no more to do list or emails lingering in my inbox. There’s no more laundry piling up and mail I’ve forgotten to send, again. There’s no deadline looming, designs to finalize, or lines of code to write. There are no calls or voicemails I’ve neglected to listen to.

There’s just me, my music, and movement.
And just like that, I am home again.

I’ve written before about finding myself through movement. How running, lifting weights, and walking all saved my life in their own ways. How they changed my relationship with my body, and eased an obsession that nearly destroyed me.

It wasn’t until I was deep in a conversation about spirituality, awakenings, and creating more alignment and integration in my work, that I realized something else about movement that hadn’t occurred to me.

I struggle to sit down and meditate… to be still.

And you know what? That’s okay.

It’s okay because I have no issue being alone with myself and my thoughts, I actually love to be lost in that space. When I was little I used to love bedtime, because it meant I could close my eyes and just be with my thoughts. I could ponder life and death and everything in between (yes, as a preteen, this is what consumed my mind). And it was the best time of the day, because there were no interruptions. There was only darkness, breath, and myself.

Not being able to sit still and meditate doesn’t mean I’m not able to face myself in the ways that we all need to. It simply means it’s not the meditation style for me.

Truth is, I don’t like to sit and be still and focus on my breath as often as I desire to be in motion. Because motion brings me deeply back into my body in a way that stillness never has. It quiets my mind. And then there’s the music. It amplifies the feelings and emotions and desires that need to surface. It puts me in a space I can’t always describe. Music invites in something so divine and personal and magical.

I feel inspired.
I receive divine downloads.
I have my best ideas.
I make sense of the madness.
I find peace where there’s been pain.
I regain my center.

Most importantly, I settle back into myself.

As I spoke with my coach about knowing it was a big time of integration and alignment for me, she talked about Panache Desai and how he meditates in every moment of every day. When changing diapers and chasing toddlers. There doesn’t need to be a set routine. There’s no right spiritual or meditative practice.

For some it’s prayer. For some it’s sitting on the meditation pillow. For some it’s being in nature or with animals. For some it’s gardening. For some it’s coloring in a coloring book. For some, and for me, it’s movement.

The beauty of our spiritual practices is that they’re ours to define, because they’re tied so closely to our personalities, beliefs, lifestyle, and needs. We get to decide what fits and what doesn’t. We get to explore and play and experience the divine in our own way. We get to call it by the name that most resonates.

And so instead of worrying that I don’t spend “enough time on the meditation pillow”, I put on my shoes, pop in my earbuds, and I move in the ways my body craves. And every single time, I come home to myself. Every single time, I feel refreshed and rejuvenated and reconnected to something greater than myself.

So tell me, what is your meditation practice?
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Midway through an acupressure session a friend and I were doing together, on a step about forgiveness, his face appeared in my mind. A face I swore up and down I never wanted to see again. A person I swore would never be allowed in my life in any capacity. But in that moment, all I wanted to do was pick up the phone and thank him profusely for the gift that was our time together.

To thank him for being who he was, the ways he (and my choosing to be with him) hurt me, and to let him know how much I deeply love and appreciate him. To hug him tight and thank him from the bottom of my heart and soul.

This is what the work is about.

Healing. Forgiveness. Love. Openness. Truth. Peace.

Getting ourselves to a point where life feels so amazing that we want to laugh and cry at the same time (something I’ve found myself doing lately). Where we look at the people and experiences that nearly broke us and give a genuine, full body and heart felt thank you. Where we feel an intense, overwhelming sense of gratitude.

Thank you.
Thank you.
Thank you.

Thank you to those who hurt me, breaking me wide open, so I can experience love more fully. Thank you rock bottom for grounding me so I can stand taller. Thank you rejection for guiding me to the right people and experiences. Thank you loneliness for giving me the capacity to appreciate connection, and the desire to brave depth. Thank you sadness, pain, and depression for deepening the range in which I can experience joy, happiness, and fulfillment. Thank you to the lost years for prompting me to find myself and my passion.

Thank you.
Thank you.
Thank you.

Thank you in advance to those who will hurt or reject me in the future. To the hard times, challenges, failures, and mistakes. Thank you to the unavoidable struggles and road blocks that will litter the path of bringing my dreams to life. Thank you to all the people and experiences that will crack me open again and again, because loss, heartbreak, and pain will only open me further to the beauty of this life.

As I settle further into myself and my truth, open my heart more fully to others, and step more deeply into the work I’m here to do, I’m overwhelmed with gratitude for every. single. thing. I’ve been through in this life.

I wouldn’t be able to love so fully, deeply, and passionately had I not experienced the losses I’ve experienced. I wouldn’t be able to smile so big, laugh so hard, and feel so absolutely in love with life had I not been cut so deeply over the years. I wouldn’t be able to appreciate the business I’ve built and the work I get to do had I not struggled so hard to get things off the ground. Had I not failed miserably more times than I can count. I wouldn’t be so fully and completely myself, and comfortable in who that is, had I not gotten so disconnected in the first place.

I understand it doesn’t feel this way when you’re going through it.

Usually it just feels hard, exhausting, and deflating.

I get that. Believe me, I get that.

But that’s why it’s so important to continue doing the work.

Questioning everything and everyone in your life, and only allowing the people and things that really light you up to stay. Challenging yourself to continue growing emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually. Never getting too comfortable or letting yourself fall into ruts. Doing the things that scare the crap out of you. Being willing to get more and more vulnerable with the people in your life. Following your whims and passions and letting them guide you towards the life and work you’re meant to have/do. Speaking your truth, especially when it’s hard and scary. Forgiving people, even if they’re never allowed back in your life. Healing the layers as they come up.

People who meet me today assume I’m just one of those shiny, happy people who didn’t have to overcome any obstacles… but really, that’s so far from the truth. I can tell you story after story of failure, epic mistakes, hurt, suffering, pain, depression, and struggle. The light, joy, passion, and love I exude today comes from many years of darkness.

And whether your darkness is the same, worse, or less intense than mine doesn’t matter. We all struggle. We all get hurt. We all make mistakes. And all these things deepen our capacity for amazing love, joy, passion, and fulfillment, if we’re willing to do the work.
Consistently. Even when it’s hard. Especially when it seems like all we do is take one step forward, and five crashing steps backwards.
Especially then.

Don’t give up.

Keep doing the work.

Buy the books, take the course, hire the coach. Talk to your friends, journal it out, go for a run. Cry, scream, laugh. Take a self care timeout, then get back up and try again. Where I am today is a result of never giving up, never stopping the work.

What will you do today?
Midway through an acupressure session a friend and I were doing together, on a step about forgiveness, his face appeared in my mind. A face I swore up and down I never wanted to see again. A person I swore would never be allowed in my life in any capacity. But in that moment, all I wanted to do ...
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It's my Thanksgiving week classic... one you may not expect during a time of giving thanks and gratitude, but it's relevant and important. 
The practice of being "ungrateful" for certain things in my life, has been the most enormous catalyst for positive change in my life.
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I want to share something today that’s really important to me, because I see it happening all the time. I’m going to talk in the context of business, but this is relevant for any area of  your life you may consult the “experts” around.
I want to share something today that's really important to me, because I see it happening all the time. The short: stop following "expert" advice.
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New blog post! I used to be a liar. Seriously, I lied all the time. I lied every day about what I really desired, regardless of how big or small. I lied about who I was to my friends and family. I lied to my bosses and clients. I lied with every breath, word, and action, and especially with every smile plastered to my face. But that's not the whole story...
Seriously, I lied all the time. I lied every day about what I really desired, regardless of how big or small. I lied about who I was to my friends and family. I lied to my bosses and clients. I lied with every breath, word, and action, and especially with every smile plastered to my face.
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New guest post up on Positively Positive! Spoiler: you haven't lost anything, you just tucked your truth away. Deep down inside yourself and covered it up with layers of what’s expected and what’s acceptable. With the things you thought you should do. What made sense was practical.
“Finding yourself” is more about removing all the layers of crap and less about trying to figure out what you’ve lost. It’s about stepping fully and completely into your truth, living your purpose and doing what lights you up.
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One of the biggest mistakes made when starting a business is modeling too closely, or flat out copying, whichever big name coach or business owner is already making money in our market.

We look at their success and think, “I just have to do what they’re doing to make money and be successful like them.” But, it’s not that simple. Their offerings, business model, and audience is working for them because it’s their business. Just because it works for someone else, doesn’t mean it will work for you.

My clients constantly ask me for a blueprint of how I run my business, structure my programs and packages, and plan my marketing. I always tell them the same thing: What works for me won’t necessarily work for you, so it’s better to start off with a model and offerings that really light you up!

When I first started my business, I modeled the “online business” structure too closely, and I ended up being very unhappy with what I’d created and the clients I was attracting. I also wasn’t able to really show up in my business, and that left me feeling stressed and unfulfilled. Since I stepped away from the standard, I created two offerings that bring me so much joy, and provide such a needed service to my audience. More importantly, I work with amazing people that I absolutely love.

Learn how to create your unique business vision: http://ow.ly/MEYpN
How to create a unique business vision and offerings, so your business stands out, and you love every aspect of it!
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Intention is a powerful thing. Starting with intention, whether a day, practice, goal, adventure, or experience, is all about setting the tone, getting clear on what you want to create, and energetically aligning yourself with that intention so that it’s easier to manifest. So on this first day of a brand new year, I want to set some intentions.
Intention is about setting the tone, getting clear on what you want to create, and energetically aligning yourself so that it's easier to manifest.
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I used to be a total flake, with others and myself, which led to living a pretty "meh" and unfulfilling life. I’m happy to say there’s a solution to avoiding having the depressing realization that you've flaked out and made so many excuses that life has totally passed you by. It’s to learn how to be in full integrity with yourself and others at all times. Click to read this post below!
I used to be a total flake, with others and myself, which led to living a pretty "meh" and unfulfilling life. But there's a solution, and I'm sharing it today!
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When we feel called to do or create something in our lives, it’s not always going to align perfectly for the people we love. We may be called in a direction that goes against our family’s belief system, makes our significant other uncomfortable, or causes us to butt heads with our closest friends. That’s okay, because what we do isn’t for them.
The work you're here to do, the family you're here to raise, the way you're built to express, and the things you feel called to pursue, it's not about them.
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At the end of last year I made the conscious decision to pull away from my communities. My mastermind tribe, entrepreneurial groups I was in, mentors, and even some of my fellow business building friends. Today I'm sharing why that was so important, and why you may want to do it too.
At the end of last year I made the conscious decision to pull away from my communities. My mastermind tribe, entrepreneurial groups I was in, mentors, and even some of my fellow business building friends. I was feeling unhappy with my business and like it needed to better reflect who I was and ...
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It makes me sad when people idolize others, because it means they’ve set that person apart from themselves as more special or deserving. Here’s a truth you need to know: you’re amazing, and you can have everything you desire and more.
It makes me sad when people idolize others, because it means they've set that person apart from themselves as more special or deserving.
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Stephenie Zamora is a life and business coach who helps unconventional 20 and 30 somethings transcend “the quarter-life crisis” by translating their passions into profitable online businesses. Stephenie created her business with a simple philosophy – Individuals who take personal responsibility for creating the lives (and jobs) they desire are happier, healthier and have a greater impact than those who don’t.

Stephenie Zamora is the founder of StephenieZamora.com  a full-service, life-purpose development, design and branding boutique. Here she merges the worlds of personal development, branding and online marketing to help young men and women build passion-based businesses. Her articles have been featured in The Huffington Post, Yahoo Shine, Positively Positive & Brian Tracy International.
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