Hahaha "porn addiction."
Don't tell the wife she's boring or not putting out enough. Just stick with that because people are dumb enough to believe it.
Also, if the mistress thought the manhandling was terrifying, why the hell she decide to meet up with him the second time? Oh that's right, she's about that money, which is more important to her than her own safety.
ANNNDDD why didn't she use protection? I mean, she's a stripper, she doesn't know much about her patrons so why take that risk? I wonder where those "thousands of dollars" went?