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😊👍One day, during an evening class for adults, the psychology Teacher entered the class and told students, “Let’s all play a game!” “ What Game?”
The Teacher asked one of the students to volunteer.

A lady, Aliza came forward.
 
The Teacher asked her to write 30 names of most important people in her life on blackboard.

Aliza wrote names of her family members, relatives, friends, her colleagues and her neighbors.
 
The Teacher told her to erase 3 names that Aliza considered most unimportant.
Aliza erased names of her colleagues.
The Teacher again told her to delete 5 more names. Aliza erased her neighbor's names.

This went on until there were just four names left on the blackboard. These were names of her mother, father, husband and the only son...

The entire class became silent  realizing that this wasn’t a game anymore for Aliza alone.

Now, The Teacher told her to delete two more names.

It was a very difficult choice for Aliza.
She unwillingly deleted her parents names.

“Please delete one more” said the Teacher.

Aliza became very nervous and with trembling hands and rears in eyes she deleted her son’s name. Aliza cried  painfully...
 
The Teacher told Aliza to take her seat.
After a while Teacher asked "why your husband?? The parents are the ones that nurtured you, and the son is the one you gave birth to ??? And you can always find another husband !!!"

Total silence in the class.
Everyone was curious to know her response.

Aliza calmly and slowly said, “One day my parents will pass away before me.
My son may also leave me when he grows old, for his studies or business or whatever reason. The only one who will truly share his entire life with me, is my Husband”.

All the students stood up and applauded for her for sharing this truth of life.👏👏👏

This is true. So always value your life partner, it's not only for husbands but wives as well.
God has united these two souls and it's on you now to nurture this relationship above all.

एक बार पचास लोगों का ग्रुप किसी सेमीनार में हिस्सा ले रहा था।
सेमीनार शुरू हुए अभी कुछ ही मिनट बीते थे कि स्पीकर अचानक
ही रुका और सभी पार्टिसिपेंट्स को गुब्बारे देते हुए बोला , ” आप
सभी को गुब्बारे पर इस मार्कर से अपना नाम लिखना है। ” सभी ने
ऐसा ही किया।
अब गुब्बारों को एक दुसरे कमरे में रख दिया गया।
स्पीकर ने अब सभी को एक साथ कमरे में जाकर पांच मिनट के अंदर
अपना नाम वाला गुब्बारा ढूंढने के लिए कहा।
सारे पार्टिसिपेंट्स
तेजी से रूम में घुसे और पागलों की तरह अपना नाम वाला गुब्बारा ढूंढने
लगे।
पर इस अफरा-तफरी में किसी को भी अपने नाम
वाला गुब्बारा नहीं मिल पा रहा था…
5 पांच मिनट बाद सभी को बाहर
बुला लिया गया।
स्पीकर बोला , ” अरे! क्या हुआ , आप
सभी खाली हाथ क्यों हैं ? क्या किसी को अपने नाम
वाला गुब्बारा नहीं मिला ?” ”
नहीं ! हमने बहुत ढूंढा पर
हमेशा किसी और के नाम का ही गुब्बारा हाथ आया…”, एक
पार्टिसिपेंट कुछ मायूस होते हुए बोला। “कोई बात नहीं , आप लोग एक
बार फिर कमरे में जाइये , पर इस बार जिसे जो भी गुब्बारा मिले उसे
अपने हाथ में ले और उस व्यक्ति का नाम पुकारे जिसका नाम उसपर
लिखा हुआ है। “, स्पीकर ने निर्दश दिया।
एक बार फिर सभी पार्टिसिपेंट्स कमरे में गए, पर इस बार सब शांत थे , और कमरे
में किसी तरह की अफरा- तफरी नहीं मची हुई थी। सभी ने एक दुसरे
को उनके नाम के गुब्बारे दिए और तीन मिनट में ही बाहर निकले आये।
स्पीकर ने गम्भीर होते हुए कहा ,
” बिलकुल यही चीज हमारे जीवन में भी हो रही है।
हर कोई अपने लिए ही जी रहा है , उसे इससे कोई
मतलब नहीं कि वह किस तरह औरों की मदद कर सकता है , वह तो बस
पागलों की तरह अपनी ही खुशियां ढूंढ रहा है , पर बहुत ढूंढने के बाद
भी उसे कुछ नहीं मिलता ,
दोस्तों हमारी ख़ुशी दूसरों क ी ख़ुशी में
छिपी हुई है।
जब तुम औरों को उनकी खुशियां देना सीख जाओगे
तो अपने आप ही तुम्हे तुम्हारी खुशियां मिल जाएँगी।
और यही मानव-
जीवन का उद्देश्य ह

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A very good article which takes two minutes to read. Heart Attacks And Drinking Warm Water
 
This is a very good article. Not only about the warm water after your meal, but about Heart Attacks. The Chinese and Japanese drink hot tea with their meals, not cold water, maybe it is time we adopt their drinking habit while eating.
 
For those who like to drink cold water, this article is applicable to you. It is nice to have a cup of cold drink after a meal. However, the cold water will solidify the oily stuff that you have just consumed. It will slow down the digestion. Once this 'sludge' reacts with the acid, it will break down and be absorbed by the intestine faster than the solid food. It will line the intestine. Very soon, this will turn into fats and lead to cancer. It is best to drink hot soup or warm water after a meal.
 
Common Symptoms Of Heart Attack...
 
A serious note about heart attacks - You! should know that not every heart attack symptom is going to be the left arm hurting . Be aware of intense pain in the jaw line.
You may never have the first chest pain during the course of a heart attack. Nausea and intense sweating are also common symptoms. 60% of people who have a heart attack while they are asleep do not wake up. Pain in the jaw can wake you from a sound sleep. Let's be careful and be aware. The more we know, the better chance we could survive..

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Here is a list of things you need to teach your Child(ren) at early age:

1: Warn your Girl Child Never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles.

2: Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them or yourself.

3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as 'my wife' or 'my husband'

4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now sexually abuse themselves.

5. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.

6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child.

7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values of sex . If you don't, the society will teach them the wrong values.

8: It is always advisable you go through any new Material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves.

9. Ensure you activate parental controls on your cable networks and advice your friends especially those your child(ren) visit(s) often.

10. Teach your 3 year olds how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that
includes you (remember, charity begins from home and with you).

11: Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families).

12. Let your child(ren) understand the value of standing out of the
crowd.

13: Once your child complains about a particular person, don't keep quiet about it.

Take up the case and show them you can defend them.

Remember, we are either parents or parents-to-be.

Have a Nice day and Great Week Ahead

And possible forward to all friends who have children's

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