Calling a person's sexual preferences deviant is a judgement. Calling homosexuals indecent is also a judgement. They are also opinions, a judgement is a type of opinion, specifically one that you enforce on others. I was never trying to convince you that homosexuals should have the same rights, that would be a waste of my time. What I am trying to convince you is to either make better thought out supportable arguments, or to let let other's be.
By the way, saying that straight isn't in my vocabulary is definitely your attempt to patronize me by reducing my dignity. Also if you must know, I prefer women. As far as your 1000's of years of proof, there have also been culturally accept homosexuality within that time. here's some compiled research on the topic http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality#History
. You are right that you don't have to answer to other people being gay, you do have to answer for adding to other's misery though. While you might be tired of having to see people talk about the issue, many gay individuals are beyond exhausted having their sexual identity challenged. If you don't want to hear about these issues then do your part and don't give the LGBT community a reason to defend themselves.
oh, and PS, you may not think gay people love each other but they do, and considering that their the ones having those emotions, I think they're likely to have a better idea than you do.