Sadly some leaders deeply desire to be in total control. Rather than liberating people to serve and use their spirituals gifts they desire to smother and control every situation and mould everything into their image.
Loving others requires us to die to ourselves. Thinking through what would God do and how do I give Him the glory. We like to hold the reigns tights and call the shots.
Some will shoot any who don't conform.
Matthew 20:25 But Jesus called them together and said, “You know that the rulers in this world lord it over their people, and officials flaunt their authority over those under them. 26 But among you it will be different. Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant, 27 and whoever wants to be first among you must become your slave. 28For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve others and to give his life as a ransom for many.”
Power and control was one of Satan's temptations of Jesus, so why not us?
Matthew 4:8-9 Next the devil took him to the peak of a very high mountain and showed him all the kingdoms of the world and their glory. 9“I will give it all to you,” he said, “if you will kneel down and worship me.”