also note that people can lighten up and have fun without disparaging what others consider fun. Yes, there is enough violence in the world. Shall we carry on to disparaging books for the immense violence therein contained as well?
If you don't enjoy video games, move along. There is little need to rationalize things you don't enjoy. It's enough to simply not enjoy them. Many of us do, just like many of us enjoy reading books. Move along.