Besides the type of person who uses rape as punishment is the type who sees sex as their just reward, something they have a right to. That type does not need to be violent, does not need to be the outright asshole that most people would peg as a red flag to avoid. The just reward type is the kind who tells you how downtrodden they are, how they never get what they want, how everybody uses them and nobody is a real friend. They guilt you for saying no, they try to guilt you into a yes by buying you gifts and being "nice". This is the "nice guy". It's not just the stereotypical frat bro who hides his rapes among sexist jokes; the downtrodden nice guy does it too.
My wife, Jill Meagher, was murdered by a man who can easily be described as the sum of all evils – but we should not fall prey to the 'monster myth'
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