Too bad you're relating things that aren't related. None of those things were mutually exclusive, and frankly I'm sure half of them did happen. Plenty of people across the country get help like this every day, one of the victims of the aurora shooting has received tons of money from an online fund-raiser as well, do you have a problem with that? He's not the only person in the US who can't afford a surgery he needs, does that mean he shouldn't get the money unless everyone does? You're drawing lines where there are none, man.
If your issue is that not enough
peoples' story gain this kind of traction, or that not enough
people get this kind of help then you're correct! Why don't you
do something to remedy that situation? Go find someone in your own life who could use help and get the ball rolling for them. You
be the change you want to see in the world, don't come online and complain that other people aren't doing it for you. This isn't communist Russia and one person getting aid doesn't mean everyone needs aid.... It also doesn't mean they're the only person who deserves it.
To continually insinuate that her troubles are somehow less important, or that the aid she received was unjustified somehow because everyone in the world didn't get it, that's just ridiculous.