Extremely upsetting and sad. This just reinforces the bigotry toward same-sex couples by families brainwashed by religion and community. You can feel the hate expressed toward their child/grandchild. She knew since he was three that he was gay, and somehow it is his "choice" to be this way. What three year old understands this? Not one. They believe he's being disrespectful and rebellious. How can he "want" to be gay? Because, he really isn't in their twisted beliefs, this is his choice in their minds. Having religious leaders telling their congregations that God cannot tolerate gays that they are the enemy, it dehumanizes gay people and you can feel it in this video. Why would someone "want" to be of same-sex orientation? Coinciding the probable consequences, it's not very appealing. But these leaders preach this is a choice and a wrong, sinful one. Yet why would a loving God impress upon someone to feel love for another but not let it be expressed? There is also fear involved. The tone in this video expresses fear, fear that a community will look down upon the family if they accept this abomination. So hate and rage explode. This family will not be exposed as being tolerate or loving of their son, no matter the consequences to the family unit. Because if they do it will stain their standing in the community. This is something that will not be accepted. How can the family? They've been told all along that this can be fixed. Pray it away. Or in this video, throw him away.