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Look what I have posted just in time for the weekend. Back by popular demand, here is another couples sexy truth or dare that you can do with your spouse. It is a perfect night for it with the amount of rain we are getting here on the East coast.
Here is a little sneak peak at some of the questions and dares I have in store:
Questions like-
What is the funniest thing you think we’ve done during sex? 
What is your favorite foreplay move? 
If I could kiss you anywhere right this second, where would you want it to be?
Dares like-
Pick a place on my body and kiss it for a minute. 
Sing me a few words from your favorite love song. 
Pleasure me for one minute in a way you know I like.

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One of my favorite nights of the year is Halloween. Austin and I love to dress up with one another. I’ve always enjoyed getting into character and fortunately, I married someone who likes to join me.


Around this time of the year, we start thinking about the types of couple’s costumes we can dress up in. I’m all about homemade costumes if possible. Sometimes, I will buy parts of a pre-made costume and then add to it.

It is important to me to use what we have and craft our costumes into existence. That is part of the fun of Halloween in my opinion.

Normally, we base our costumes off of one of two things:

What we have on hand
Something that catches our fancy
We’ve made costumes from shows we were really into. Other times, we have come up with creative ideas based off of the materials we have on hand.

This year, we are working on costumes from Back to the Future. If you are sci-fi geek, then you know this October is the year that Marty McFly traveled to in the first movie. According to Austin, it only makes sense that we go this route.

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Trying different positions in the bedroom is really important. When you get out of your normal routine, it makes you have to pay more attention to your spouse. Not only that, it will cause you to communicate.

If you are anything like me, you look at some of these positions and wonder who in the world bends that way. I will readily admit that a lot of what you come across is not at all practical.

One thing to keep in mind when it comes to new positions, some will be awesome, and others will not. You have no idea what you will like until you attempt it.

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My parents are huge advocates of getting away as a couple on a yearly basis. It doesn’t have to be anything extravagant to be effective. You just need time away from life to reconnect and bond with each other.

Mom and Dad are very forward thinking people. Mom told me over and over that you have to focus on your relationship with your spouse. One day, all of your kids will grow up and move away. It is very important that you make sure you and your spouse have something left once the kids are gone.

For that reason, this coming weekend, Austin and I are putting together a romantic getaway while my parents watch the boys.

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The scripture is full of helps for us in regards to every area of our life. Marriage is no different. When you think about Bible verses for marriage, I’m sure some of the general passages come to mind.

Some of the typical ones that you might think of would include:

Ephesians 5:32- For this reason a man should leave his father…
Mark 10:9- What God has joined together, let no one separate…
Colossians 3:18- Wives submit yourselves to your husband…
Ephesians 5:25- Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ….
You probably have a few others that you immediately thought of.

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It doesn’t matter how much you love someone, they are going to do things that annoy you. When you get married, you’ll find even more things about a person that can frustrate you.

Have you ever found yourself having a trivial spat with your spouse? A lot of times, it starts out over something small and turns into a huge fight by the end of it. Both people have no idea how the conversation got where it ended up.

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Who else wants to yell obscenities at the Ashley Madison campaign? Or is it just me? Their slogan is, “Life is short. Have an Affair”. That concept turns my stomach.

If I thought it would help, I would write all sorts of mean things about that website. Here’s the problem though, it isn’t the website that is the problem.


I’m a content creator and it is my job to come up with engaging copy to help market business. Know what though? All of these businesses exist, because there is a market for it.

If there wasn’t a market for spousal affairs, then the website wouldn’t have gotten any traction. It would have died in the water like so many other website startups I’ve been a part of.

There are a lot of people out there that are entertaining the thoughts of having an affair, and now there is a platform that will help them do that.


We live in a fallen world and we are all sinners. All of us have temptations to do the wrong thing. In marriages, one, if not both of the spouses are liable to have fleeting thoughts about having an affair.

What you think about and dwell on will eventually become your actions. Remember the whole idea of garbage in, garbage out? We cannot fantasize and entertain sin without eventually falling into it.

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Low self-esteem can affect all areas of your life, but your marriage may suffer more than any other areas. There are a lot of reasons that I say that.

You will push the other person away emotionally and physically.
You will feel jealous of their opportunities, other relationships, and time away from you.
You will think they are out to get you and be suspicious that everything they say is for their personal gain.
You will feel unlovable and dismiss their actions and words of love towards you.
You will desire constant attention and reassurance of their love, but never feel that it is enough.
These are just a few of the mindsets that come with low self-esteem. Can you see how these thoughts can destroy your marriage?

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Have you ever had a craving for something amazing to eat, but you just didn’t know what it was? I do this at least on a monthly basis. This is different than my pizza, Pepsi, and doughnut run that I usually make.

There are just times when I’m hungry for something different than what I usually eat. Don’t get me wrong here, I am the cook in my house, and I eat really awesome food…(not tooting my horn, just being honest)…but there are times when I need something else.

It goes like this in the bedroom, too. We all have a craving for something new sexually from time to time, we just don’t always know what. Maybe you have a lot of great sex, but one night, you are in the mood for something more.

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It took me all week to get any posts up on the blog. I’ve been very busy with my freelance writing business like usual. Sometimes, it can be hard to squeeze in writing for myself.

Also, if you will notice, I have made some changes to the way the blog looks. I’ve had several people tell me the polka dot background was too busy…so I have finally made the change.

I had to create a new banner to match it better. Hopefully you like the changes.

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