Also Mack, I agree with you that ESO feels - empty-ish? I guess that's the right way of saying it. Now, yes I am a "care bear" player, I hate PvP in most MMO's with a passion. Tried ESO's PvP zone once and didn't like it mainly for the same reasons as every other game. Once you go against someone higher level, or more powerful in general, it's a major turn off.
Now don't get me wrong, I play almost every MMO, whether it's PvE focused or PvP focused. I just don't like partaking in PvP most of the time. Forced world PvP is a major concern for developers though, as MOST (note I said most, not all) players do not like PvP in general. Plus, if you have a 9 year old and let him or her play for a bit then get ganked by some douchebag. Yeah not fun. Still, I understand you Mack and feel for you. I do wish there were more PvP centered games for people who like that sort of thing.
Also, sorry for the wall of text. :)