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Kalyani Roldan
Relationship Innovator & Author | #couplesthrivingcode |
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"I'm learning to not rush things that need time to grow."

It's Day 9 green juice cleanse/fast... going strong. Day 7 was the only really tough day I've experienced so far, but I listened to my body and gave it extra greens and relaxed most of the day.

So on that note... For those of you that may be feeling the pressure and you might even be the one imposing the pressure on yourself about something that you should have done by now or a project that should have been completed already.

I want to remind you that everything happens in the exact timing it is meant to... when we're aligned with it... not a moment sooner.

Get out of your own way. Let it unfold.

Just like I've been wanting to do this greens cleanse/fast for several months, it didn't really matter about all the life circumstances or reasons why I hadn't done it yet, I simply wasn't aligned with it any sooner than when I started 9 days ago.

It really is this simple. The universe is always working with us for our greatest good, but we need to align within ourself in order to meet up with the right timing.

I'm finishing a new biz project and yesterday again I found myself with the idea that it should have been completed days ago, instead of allowing it to unfold with all the divine synchronicity that inevitably shows up.

All I've ever experienced is the evidence of life unfolding and revealing to me exactly what's needed along the journey to perfect timing.

So today I'm reminding myself what I remind my kiddos of all the time and all our couples we work with... all is revealed exactly as and when we need it and it's always the moment we allow ourselves to be in alignment with it.

Today I choose to let this amazing project I'm working on be what it's wanting to flourish into without my interference. And I'm focusing my intention on being in alignment with allowing it to happen naturally in perfect timing. No more pressure. I'm letting it be.

Hope this helps you put something important in your life into more powerful perspective, so you can allow peace and align into perfect timing as well. 💜☮️

#perfecttiming #divinesynchronicity #biggerpicture #couplesthrivingcode #powercouples #lifequotes 

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Your task is not to seek love, but to find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it. - #Rumi
#powercouples #powerquotes

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Happy ReBirth Day to ME!!

The loves of my life asked me today, like they do every year... What do you want to DO for your birthday?

And of course like any other day I simply want to keep experiencing more fun with this wild n' wacky bunch I call my family!

We've created a life filled with blessings. I deeply honor the love + connection our family shares. It's freakin cool that we not only genuinely love each other but we totally like each other and have so much fun being together. I value tremendously that we’re all happy + healthy.

And I'm grateful that through all the easy flowing times AND the extremely challenging times, we've always remained true to our vision of thriving together... deepening + strengthening + expanding our relationship.

Yes even in the darkest moments, we found our courage to do what was needed, and come out stronger together.

So today is not really any different for me. Even though it's an auspicious day in honor of my ReBirth, everyday is equally significant to me.

However there is one thing that would be extra meaningful to me this year...

I REALLY want more couples to recognize that out of all the billions of people on the planet, you are Divinely orchestrated to be together. Your partnership is a vessel of unique purpose + power. Reveal it. Honor it. Understand it. Strengthen it. Use it to be a light of transformation.

I REALLY want more couples to connect + create a vision together as a family and have the courage to live your vision.

Especially during the times when... it feels like you're falling apart. It seems like circumstances are against you. You may have to let go of some things. You're scared about what others think or expect of you.

I REALLY want more couples to have the courage to not be concerned so much about the status + substance, but to fully embrace your life of significance.

Blessings 💜✌🏼️ 

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No more breeding and selling... animals are not commodities... they have a divine purpose here
"I am posting this (and it is long) because I think our society needs a huge wake-up call."

As a shelter manager, I am going to share a little insight with you all - a view from the inside, if you will.
Maybe if you saw the life drain from a few sad, lost, confused eyes, you would change your mind about breeding and selling to people you don't even know - that puppy you just sold will most likely end up in my shelter when it's not a cute little puppy anymore.

How would you feel if you knew that there's about a 90% chance that dog will never walk out of the shelter it is going to be dumped at - purebred or not! About 50% of all of the dogs that are "owner surrenders" or "strays" that come into my shelter are purebred dogs.
No shortage of excuses
The most common excuses I hear are:
We are moving and we can't take our dog (or cat).
Really? Where are you moving to that doesn't allow pets?
The dog got bigger than we thought it would.
How big did you think a German Shepherd would get?
We don't have time for her.
Really? I work a 10-12 hour day and still have time for my 6 dogs!
She's tearing up our yard.
How about bringing her inside, making her a part of your family?

They always tell me: We just don't want to have to stress about finding a place for her. We know she'll get adopted - she's a good dog. Odds are your pet won't get adopted, and how stressful do you think being in a shelter is?
Well, let me tell you. Dead pet walking!
Your pet has 72 hours to find a new family from the moment you drop it off, sometimes a little longer if the shelter isn't full and your dog manages to stay completely healthy.
If it sniffles, it dies.

Your pet will be confined to a small run / kennel in a room with about 25 other barking or crying animals. It will have to relieve itself where it eats and sleeps. It will be depressed and it will cry constantly for the family that abandoned it.
If your pet is lucky, I will have enough volunteers that day to take him / her for a walk. If I don't, your pet won't get any attention besides having a bowl of food slid under the kennel door and the waste sprayed out of its pen with a high-powered hose.
If your dog is big, black or any of the "bully" breeds (pit bull, rottweiler, mastiff, etc) it was pretty much dead when you walked it through the front door. Those dogs just don't get adopted.
If your dog doesn't get adopted within its 72 hours and the shelter is full, it will be destroyed.

If the shelter isn't full and your dog is good enough, and of a desirable enough breed, it may get a stay of execution, though not for long. Most pets get very kennel protective after about a week and are destroyed for showing aggression. Even the sweetest dogs will turn in this environment.
If your pet makes it over all of those hurdles, chances are it will get kennel cough or an upper respiratory infection and will be destroyed because shelters just don't have the funds to pay for even a $100 treatment.

The grim reaper
Here's a little euthanasia 101 for those of you that have never witnessed a perfectly healthy, scared animal being "put-down".
First, your pet will be taken from its kennel on a leash. They always look like they think they are going for a walk - happy, wagging their tails. That is, until they get to "The Room".

Every one of them freaks out and puts on the breaks when we get to the door. It must smell like death, or they can feel the sad souls that are left in there. It's strange, but it happens with every one of them. Your dog or cat will be restrained, held down by 1 or 2 vet techs (depending on their size and how freaked out they are). A euthanasia tech or a vet will start the process. They find a vein in the front leg and inject a lethal dose of the "pink stuff". Hopefully your pet doesn't panic from being restrained and jerk it's leg. I've seen the needles tear out of a leg and been covered with the resulting blood, and been deafened by the yelps and screams.

They all don't just "go to sleep" - sometimes they spasm for a while, gasp for air and defecate on themselves.
When it all ends, your pet's corpse will be stacked like firewood in a large freezer in the back, with all of the other animals that were killed, waiting to be picked up like garbage.

What happens next? Cremated? Taken to the dump? Rendered into pet food? You'll never know, and it probably won't even cross your mind. It was just an animal, and you can always buy another one, right?

Liberty, freedom and justice for all
I hope that those of you that have read this are bawling your eyes out and can't get the pictures out of your head. I do everyday on the way home from work. I hate my job, I hate that it exists and I hate that it will always be there unless people make some changes and realize that the lives you are affecting go much farther than the pets you dump at a shelter.

Between 9 and 11 MILLION animals die every year in shelters and only you can stop it. I do my best to save every life I can but rescues are always full, and there are more animals coming in everyday than there are homes.
My point to all of this is DON'T BREED OR BUY WHILE SHELTER PETS DIE!

Hate me if you want to - the truth hurts and reality is what it is.
I just hope I maybe changed one person's mind about breeding their dog, taking their loving pet to a shelter, or buying a dog. I hope that someone will walk into my shelter and say "I saw this thing on craigslist and it made me want to adopt".
That would make it all worth it."

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Together we can end this senseless killing.
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Music in the soul can be heard in the universe.

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Look past your thoughts so you may drink the pure nectar of this moment - Rumi

We've all got things we think we need to do and take care of that tend to keep us thinking rather than really living... however when I began to just breathe in the moment of NOW - even if only for a few moments - without concern of what's coming or not... I noticed over time that so much of that stuff I thought needed to fill my day or life magically cleared away space for what's truly important... living intentionally + present in the fun gift of this moment. #powercouples #powercouplesrevolution

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Found this gem in my memories from 3 years ago...

This is WHY I choose the life I live... and the reason that I share my life and message with all of you... because I believe that families want {more than anything} to be happier and more connected with each other living the loving + stress free lives we're meant to... that's the environment that cultivates a precious young person, like sweet Jamaili, being able to FEEL and EXPERIENCE what she's so beautifully sharing in this affirmation she wrote for herself. #powercouples #powercouplesrevolution

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Power Couples if you're done looking for answers and you want to learn what it takes to consistently access + trust + take action on your own answers {even when they may seem crazy cuz no one else is doing it that way} then join +Darsana Roldan and I for this sweet scope this afternoon 3pm PST @PowerCouplesUnite

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+Darsana Roldan and I are going to have a powerful live talk tomorrow on Periscope. We'll see you there 3pm PST @PowerCouplesUnite

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Good morning Power Couples today we're talking about A Relationship that Fuels Meaningful Success:

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