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THE SILENT TREATMENT: PREFERRED WEAPON OF PEOPLE WITH NARCISSISM

The target, who may possess high emotional intelligence, empathy, conflict-resolution skills, and the ability to compromise, may work diligently to respond to the deafening silence. He or she may frequently reach out to the narcissistic person via email, phone, or text to resolve greatly inflated misunderstandings, and is typically met with continued disdain, contempt, and silence. Essentially, the narcissistic person’s message is one of extreme disapproval to the degree that the silence renders the target so insignificant that he or she is ignored and becomes more or less nonexistent in the eyes of the narcissistic person.

The emotional maturity of a typical narcissistic person is akin to a 5-year-old child who pouts and refuses to play with a friend in the sandbox because the friend wants to share the pail and shovel. The 5-year-old refuses to talk with the friend and angrily storms off to play on the jungle gym with someone else. The bewildered child with the pail and shovel may feel confused, rejected, and may not understand why they can’t share. He or she just wanted to build a sand castle together.

Because no further communication can ensue unless and until the narcissistic person decides to give the target another chance, a false sense of control is nurtured. Often, the narcissistic person will demand that the target apologize for whatever inflated transgression the target may have committed (the target may have set a limit or asserted a boundary against emotional abuse, for example). Sometimes, a person with narcissistic qualities will decide to abandon and discard the relationship when his or her partner presents an ultimatum or attempts resolution requiring compromise. The person with narcissism may prefer to end the relationship and start over rather than be in a position of potential abandonment. The 5-year-old storms off and plays with a new, innocent target on the swing set. It is too much work to share the pail and shovel.

So how does one deal with the silent treatment from a person with narcissism? For those leaving a toxic relationship with such an individual, many therapists suggest that the survivor understand that the person with narcissism has not developed the ability to express a high level of empathy, reciprocity, and compromise. The silent treatment is a form of emotional abuse that no one deserves nor should tolerate. If an individual experiences this absence of communication, it is a sure sign that he or she needs to move on and heal.

The healing process can feel like mourning the loss of a relationship that did not really exist and was one-way in favor of the ego-massaging person with narcissism. The minute the partner disagrees with the narcissistic person or asserts his or her healthy boundaries, the narcissistic person deploys an arsenal of abuse tactics. The silent treatment is a favorite weapon.

Do not accept emotional abuse. Know that you are worthy of a healthy relationship with someone who can communicate in a mature, emotionally healthy manner. Play with someone who has the ability to share the shovel and pail. You deserve no less.

Published: 2 June 2014
Author: Andrea Schneider, LCSW
Professions: Clinical Social Work, Psychotherapy
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This was always everyone's favourite. Platz vs. Dr. Squat 'friendly'. You can get the stats and info from my YouTube post. Most is from talking with Fred Hatfield rather than regurgitation of websites:

Platz 525 x 23 reps SQUAT!

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St. Petersburg, Russia. 8 May, 2014. The day before Victory Day. Military Vehivles everywhere!
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Collaroy beach with my fiancée Асель Соркина Абелгалиева (Asel Sorkina Abelgalieva). +*


Collaroy Beach in Sydney's northern beaches, not far from my home, is in the state of New South Wales, Australia.

Apparently it's 22 km NorEast of the Sydney CBD.

Пляж Колларой в северных пляжей Сиднея, в штате Новый Южный Уэльс, Австралия - 22 км к северо-востоку от центрального делового района Сиднея.

Дорогая Асель, я скучаю,
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Always a nice place for a meal. When you leave.....the world looks different - Literally. https://www.swarmapp.com/lynchjoe/checkin/577b8043498e06903a85fae6?s=u9Qaf1P-BQ4grl5a6ajIhHPEqwQ
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My fiancée bride Asel Sorkina (Abelgalieava) / Асель Соркина (Абелгалиева). This was at the Blue Lagoon in Iceland.
There is such a long story, and we have not posted much, in fact almost nothing here on Google+.
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Seeking to contribute a senior level of proven selling skills, demonstrated marketing and distribution achievements, and an absolute commitment to creating and delivering customer service excellence.
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IT PROFESSIONAL FOCUSED UPON MORE CHALLENGING HORIZONS, HAS A PASSION FOR UNIFIED COMMUNICATIONS.

 

For more information see my Linkedin public profile or join up for free and see more information and/or eMail me for more information.

 

 

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Seeking to contribute a senior level of proven selling skills, demonstrated marketing and distribution achievements, and an absolute commitment to creating and delivering customer service excellence.

 

  • 30 Years of successful sales experience in B2B ranging from small business to major corporations & government (including international), within the communications, IT, electronics & accounting sectors.

 

  • Always a zealous and confident ‘hunter’, yet with refined social skills also proven in maintaining and expanding existing accounts, including a proactive and diplomatic approach to dispute resolution.

 

  • Skilled in the fast, accurate diagnosis of technology problems and challenges, and the implementation of effective sales solutions.

 

  • Dedicated to learn quickly, always trying to excel in everything I do with energy, and determination.  Further, I’m driven to surpass all my records!

 

  • A very highly developed ability to initiate and accelerate technical sales pipelines through a vast depth of product knowledge, yet the unique ability to rapidly develop a sense of the customers focus and technical level, and to capably explain technical matters using a commonsense ‘plain English’ approach.

 

 

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 • Business Development
 
 • Sales Management
 
 • Account Management
 
 • IT Systems & Network Engineer
 • Software
 
 • Microsoft Certified Systems Engineer - MCSE
 
 • Microsoft Certified Professional - MCP x 5
 
 •Information and Communication Technology (ICT)
 
 • Healthcare Communications
 
 • Nurse Call Systems
 
 • Radio Frequency Communications
 
 • Broadband Systems
 
 • Telecommunications
 
 • Electronics
 
 • Complex Video/Audio editing, primarily codec & container transcoding

 

 

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I have three fanastic kids, and am always focused on a positive future!
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  • St Augustine's College, Brookvale NSW AUSTRALIA
    Higher School Certificate, 1973 - 1981
    Physics, Chemistry, Advanced Economics, Mathematics, English
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