So, how can you get out of the victim mentality?
Recognize that you have your own stuff to work on. You can’t work on anyone else’s as it is their’s to work on.
If you allow yourself to learn from the past experiences, then you give yourself a chance to grow and become even stronger as a human being (and a romantic partner).
Turn to numerous sources: friends, family, spiritual community – if you have one, coaches/therapist/counselor, books, inspirational podcasts/radio shows/TV
Assimilate the various information.
Take what resonates and makes the most sense to you – let the rest flow past you.
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