I would not have it no other way. The man should lead and I will have his back in everything. As long as he is allowing God to lead him. I don't have no problem what so ever a man being the head of our home. And I think more marriages will last longer if it is done accordingly to God plan. We work together. Everything we make, we both bring it to the table. Nothing shall be secret. If he has kids, grown or not. They are part of my life as well. And vice versa, all my children are grown and on there own. But my point is, when you marry a person it's a whole package. And I'm not a selfish person. There's no way I can say I love a man. And not love his children. Yes in any relationship, you set boundaries. Because marriage is about being one. And you must have respect for one another. As well as you keep the flame going in your marriage. You keep yourself up, like you did when you both were attractive to each other. Never get so comfortable, that you let yourself go. And when you completely love yourself, you won't. You ride and die for one another. It's about being loyal in everything. And trusting, and most importantly, don't ever lose who you are as a person. Give each other space is very important. And it's very important to do things together. This is why before you even enter into a marriage. Courting and getting to know each other. And marking sure that you are compatible and have the same ambitions. And like having fun together. I believe in 100/100. Giving it all I have and more.