Haven't posted much on here lately, but thought to share a positive and a love story. On this day last year I met/started dating my better half. Crazy how fast time flies.
Along the way I started a dating experiment. It was "52 dates in 52 weeks".
I met him on week 34, and he was the last person I continued to date.
Because I am a hopeless romantic, I blogged every date. I had a pre-date and post-date blog post. I wanted to know, if I met the one, what would be my first thoughts? Would it be love at first sight? Does love at first sight exist? I started doing video blogs before I met him too!
When I watched my video blogs about our pre and post first date I want to cry. Coincidentally, for the first time I said (on the video) what I selfishly wanted in a relationship and 30 minutes later... I met him!
Of course I was the stereotypical girl. Despite I stated what I wanted and had everything in front of me... I became confused. I stated he was a 180-flip and admitted how I didn't know what I wanted anymore. (He turned my world upside down since day one!)
For that reason I told myself that he seemed like more as a friend (of course!). Meaning, I felt comfortable with him and got along with him so well that I could see myself with him in the long run.
Luckily my guy friend knocked sense into me. He told me that's the entire point of being in a relationship. You can be lovers and best friends. So I give this guy another shot, and I couldn't be happier that I did!!!
And regarding my blog I'm still debating what I should do with it. I created an online dating guide (directed to women). http://bit.ly/onlinedatingguide
But we'll see. Just happy that I took a chance.. more like we both took a chance in each other, and kept up the faith! And now I am a believer at love at first sight too. And wow oh wow it's been a year! Cannot wait to see what's stored for our future!