Dealing with anger is REALLY hard. I find the older I get the more angry I get at things. I used to be a lot more mellow.
Try figuring out what is triggering the anger and work from there.
Wouldn't it be interesting if #ingress were Guide Dog Puppy Trainers? You have to go out and walk around to train the dogs. You have to bring them to places with ppl and distractions. It's like playing Ingress while raising a dog! (Plus everything on the walk is tax deductible!)
I was a puppy trainer for about 7 years and it was GREAT! I had to stop because I was moving a lot out of state and my apts were getting smaller and smaller. It was some of the best years I have had. Plus when you see the puppy all grown up into a real service dog and they run at you because they remember you! It is GREAT! :)
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And I did so because of the mention "from before adulthood", which suggests the mental associations that create anger are probably based on childish ideas (now become unconscious), and/or trauma from childhood (again now partly unconscious, "integrated", taken from granted).
If it was as simple as denial and positive-thinking ("You're fine, you'll find, don't give up"), I'm confident Hans would have figured it out by now. But it isn't as simple as that…
"Don't give up", when it has not worked until now, is very bad advice: it suggests to persevere with what didn't work! Adaptation and change, not stubbornness, are key to success.
... just got the news. ..
My partner at work, Beto, passed away...
He was (i think) 41.
He had cold/flu symptoms a week ago. Came into work Tuesday and was not able to even start his shift. Since then i got news he was in the hospital and there was complications about treatment and his diabetes. Then i guess it jumped into a heart attack. ..
That is the 2nd Co Worker in the same months.
He leaves behind a girlfriend and a 7 month old child. ...(and i think one more child )
I am lost in life because I have no degree/s but have a grand self/skill education and no time to go back to school. Frustrating.
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