Here's the thing - I (and most other americans) really want to be able to get insurance without concern about whether we have pre-existing conditions. That way, if I lose my job, I don't have to worry about my kids getting sick and being unable to get insurance, etc.
The only way to do this is to make sure that everyone has to buy insurance - otherwise, people would just wait until they get sick to buy insurance, and the system would break down.
As I said previously, I understand that this will cost you money. We are literally plucking money out of your pocket and giving you reasonably priced health care you don't want in return. I understand why this makes you angry and it seems unfair to you - but I think it's important enough to ensure that I'm willing to do it anyway, in the same way that I'm willing to tax people to pay for our highway system even though they personally may not drive a car.
So, yeah. Sorry this is going to cost you money. But I appreciate your contribution.