This is by far one of the most small minded points of view that I have ever been exposed to. I originally thought to myself that surely, this man must be a self loathing gay man, but by then end, I realize that you are definitely misguided. I would encourage you to commit yourself to exploring research, conduct interviews, and arm yourself with intelligent insight on this issue so that you do not prove yourself to be a buffoon. You seem to be quite articulate, so I am sure that with some education, you will be able to present this argument with points that are rooted in intelligence. - that's just my opinion.