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Darlene Lancer
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Lies and secrets damage us and our relationships. Most people worry about the risk of being honest, but give little thought to the risks of dishonesty. Read more:
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Codependency has been referred to as “relationship addiction” or “love addiction.” But is it a disease? Identify the stages of addiction and recovery. Read more:
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Self-esteem is key to success in work, and enjoyment of life and relationships. It affects our thoughts, feelings, and behavior, and how we handle life's challenges. Low self-esteem underlies addiction, anxiety, depression, abuse, intimacy problems, and codependency. Our self-esteem is usually determined by our teens, but there are specific things we can do to raise it. This webinar defines and describes self-esteem both high and low, as well as its sources. It discusses clues and symptoms, so you can assess your own and identify beliefs and behaviors you want to change and those you want to implement. It details 12 crucial steps to build self-esteem and self-love with many actionable tips and exercises you can immediately put into practice. See also the ebook on overcoming self-criticism, 10 Steps to Self-Esteem: The Ultimate Guide to Stop Self-Criticism, which is an important factor in raising self-esteem. Read more:
Self-esteem is key to success in work, and enjoyment of life and relationships. It affects our thoughts, feelings, and behavior, and how we handle life’s challenges. Low self-esteem underlies addiction, anxiety, depression, abuse, intimacy problems, and codependency. Our self-esteem is usually determined by our teens, but there are specific things we can do to raise it. This webinar defines and describes self-esteem both high and low, as well as ...
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Darlene Lancer, MFT - Stress Counseling, Stress Management, Anxiety Counseling, and Anxiety Treatment in Santa Monica, Los Angeles, and Culver City, CA. Find more:
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Love entails overcoming defenses of denial, withdrawal, control, or placating to avoid vulnerability and intimacy. See a checklist of relationship problems. Read more:
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Darlene Lancer, MFT - Improve Your Self-Confidence and Self-Esteem with Self-Esteem Counseling in Santa Monica, Los Angeles, and Culver City, CA, California. Find more:
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Narcissists are codependent, too! They share the same core symptoms with codependents. Learn more in "Conquering Shame and Codependency" and "Dealing with a Narcissist"
When a person with a dependent or a codependent personality enters into a relationship with a narcissist, it can mean bad news.
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If you’re in an abusive relationship, you may wonder if your partner is a narcissist or sociopath and whether or not the relationship will improve. If so, or if you recently ended such a relationship, it can undermine your self-esteem.Read more:
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Darlene Lancer, MFT - Depression Counseling, Depression Management, and Depression Treatment in Santa Monica, Los Angeles, and Culver City, CA. Find more:

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Valuable information on Intimacy Fears and Overcoming Fear of Intimacy provided by Darlene Lancer, MFT, author of Codependency for Dummies and 10 Steps to Self-Esteem. Read more
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Darlene Lancer, MFT - Marriage Counseling and Therapy and Couples Therapy and Couples Counseling in Santa Monica, Los Angeles, and Culver City, CA. Read more:
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Low self-esteem, typical of codependency, puts us at risk for depression. Do you have these bad habits? Take the quiz and learn to raise your self-esteem. Read more:
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Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Relationship and Codependency Author and Expert
Introduction
Darlene Lancer is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and expert on relationships and codependency. She’s the author of two books: Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You and Codependency for Dummies.

Her 6 ebooks include: 10 Steps to Self-Esteem, How To Speak Your Mind - Become Assertive and Set Limits, Dealing with a Narcissist: 8 Steps to Raise Self-Esteem and Set Boundaries with Difficult People, Freedom from Guilt and Blame - Finding Self-Forgiveness Spiritual Transformation in the Twelve Steps and Codependency Recovery Daily Reflections.

Ms. Lancer has counseled individuals and couples for 28 years and coaches internationally. She’s a sought after speaker at national conferences, on radio, and to professional groups and institutions. Her monthly blogs and articles appear in professional journals and Internet mental health websites, including on her own, www.whatiscodependency.com, where you can get a free copy of “14 Tips for Letting Go.” Find her on www.youtube.com, Twitter @darlenelancer, and Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/codependencyrecovery.
Education
  • Antioch University Los Angeles
    Masters in Clinical Psychology, 1989
  • University of California, Los Angeles
    Juris Doctor, 1970
  • American School of Hypnotherapy,
    2004
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Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Author
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Self-Psychology, Voice-Dialogue, Dream Analysis, Jungian Therapy, Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy, Somatic Work, EFT, and Hypnosis
Employment
  • Darlene Lancer, LMFT
    Psychotherapist and Owner, present
    25 years' experience helping individual men and women and couples recover from trauma, achieve greater self-esteem and autonomy, and find their paths personally and professionally.
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Santa Monica, California
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