The only people who think a mother can do the same thing as a father, do not understand what a true man is. Thank you Terry for speaking out. My father wasn't there for me as he should have. But I don't call my mother and tell her happy father's day. She did a great job raising me as a single mother, but she will never be a man. I was able to get what I needed from a man, from the men God put in my life. Wake up everyone this is part of what is wrong with our world today no one recognizes what a true man is and supposed to be.