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Cynthia Bailey-Rug
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There is often a great amount of faulty thinking among people that says if you understand why an abuser abuses, that means you’re justifying the abuse.  While that certainly is possible, it isn’t always the case, & it’s also never wise.   Anyone who’s…
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Some years ago, I began to realize I didn’t know who I really was.  I was the result of people telling me who I was, how to dress, what to like & not like.  It’s taken a long time but I can say honestly that now, I’ve finally shed that false person &…
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Sometimes when abuse gets especially bad, it can put a person into shock.  This can be expected when someone is beaten or raped, especially by someone known to the victim, but it comes other times as well.   In cases of narcissistic abuse, a narcissist…
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Rejection is a huge part of narcissistic abuse.  It may not seem like it at first, but when you think about it, it really is. Rejection isn’t only kicking someone out of your life.  Rejection can take many other forms. Telling someone that they aren’t…
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Denial is a common survival tool of victims of all types of abuse.  Pretending things didn’t happen, weren’t that bad or there was a good reason your abuser acted as she did are all forms  of denial.   Denial may help you to cope for a while, but it…
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Matthew 5:44  “But I say to you, love [that is, unselfishly seek the best or higher good for]your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,” (AMP)   When it comes to loving narcissists, it feels like an impossible task. They aren’t easy people to…
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If you are at the point in your relationship with the narcissist in your life where you are ready to go no contact, I truly wish you the best.  It’s not an easy decision to make, so it shows you have courage & strength just to make the decision.  You’ll…
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