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Somewhat ashamed to be carrying a Y chromosome after reading all of this.

Men, this is not OK. 1 in 16 is orders of magnitude too many.
“over a 20-year period, asking some 2,000 men in college questions like this: “Have you ever had sexual intercourse with someone, even though they did not want to, because they were too intoxicated [on alcohol or drugs] to resist your sexual advances?”, or “Have you ever had sexual intercourse with an adult when they didn’t want to because you used physical force [twisting their arm, holding them down, etc.] if they didn’t cooperate?” About 1 in...
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Few years ago now I had a crush on this girl. She'd stop by my house every couple weeks to visit with the other roommates, one in particular with who she was friends with for years. They'd all get high together or drink, you know, typical stuff.

One morning I walked out onto the patio where two of the roommates were already sitting, pleasantly buzzed. The one who knew the girl for the longest said I missed out last night. I asked on what. He said he thought I was sleeping so he didn't come knock on my door to get me. I asked for what again.

He said that last night this girl and a friend of her's were on e, and "you could have totally had her, no question", I remember his words. In a split second my opinion of her, her friend, and the roommate sitting in front of me crashed through the floor.

I tried to play it cool, "That wouldn't have been right. That's just wrong. I couldn't take advantage of her like that."

The other roommate piped up, "Oh, it's cool. She was totally lucid, man. It wouldn't be like a rape or something."

My opinion of him joined the others through that hole in the floor. Shortly thereafter I gave up arguing and walked away. Never spoke with the girl again, and the roommates in question would be on their own way within months.

Well, on the bright side, we now know the 1 in 16 men who need to be put down :(
Never been one of those guys. I always figured if I couldn't make them beg me for it, I wasn't doing my job as a seducer but that never stopped me from outright asking if they seemed hesitant to ask for "more" either..
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