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Here's another beardy. 
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Hoping all my USA friends had a good America day. 
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have you mean? this independence day is still barely born... 
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that's awesome! one less place the US religious right has spread its poison. good for them!! 
Mozambique decriminalises homosexuality in its new penal code, making it one of a few African countries where same-sex relationships are legal.
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#nope  
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I've been there, she's so serius right now doe
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I'm not reading this. I don't read reviews to decide if I should watch or enjoy something. But you're free to! I liked the movie. It made me laugh.
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Same here. I either want to see it or not based on cast, subject, etc., not someone else's opinion. 
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Animal use code to it master, with bounding we can create our new code with this creature
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One beer down. I'm good for today!
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I guess some people like beards. 
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I did, it was pretty great.  I haven't gotten more though.
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LMFAO
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+drosh413 david is "LMFAO" at this Zayn hashtag typical of directioners?
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Some interesting perspectives. Thank whatever that I'm not in the dating scene. Fuck this bullshit.
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Haha I'm not sure this is completely accurate. Although I will say, my attraction tends to focus on guys around my own age and younger—though I certainly don't lack in things to talk about with younger guys, as that one dude suggested.

I will say that in general, the older guys whom I am attracted to take care of themselves physically and mentally, are active, and have diverse interests. Their outlook is youthful, while having the benefit of experience.

In all cases, the men I date are honest about themselves and their expectations, and I return that courtesy by being upfront about what I'm looking for, whether it's mostly just sex or maybe something a little more substantial.

The secret really is to translate everything one has learned about interactions and engagement in online communities to face-to-face IRL settings. It's not difficult, and I've made some wonderful friends in the last couple of years that I've been dating and meeting new men.

The other piece of dating advice I would give anyone is to know your own self value, and convey that without being overconfident or arrogant. Not knowing your own worth, on the other hand, leads to awkwardness and a general sense of being desperate that's not very attractive most of the time.

I can already hear some of the objections now, though honestly, those objections and excuses are false expectations appearing real. Just take a deep breath, and go for it. If I can do it, anyone can. 
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+Bruce Shark welcome to the xenomorphic family then xD
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Male
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Friends, Networking
Birthday
July 18
Other names
Jim Workman
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It has been broughten.
Introduction
My name is Brian M. Workman, I'm a homosexual enthusiast living in Toronto, ON, Canada.

I am the Lead Developer for ThresholdRPG

I used to be about as unpolitical as they come, but lately I've found that I'm really incensed by all the hatred out there. Hatred for LGBTQ (I still don't get the Q part), hatred for people, for humanity. Guys, we all live here, get along already.

Also, I like Coke Zero. But I've switched to club soda. Yum.

I like sexy dudes, but just to pretend I'm not that shallow, I also like to write. I want to write a real novel some day, but for now I pretend to be a writer by vomiting out short fiction that nobody will ever care about.
Bragging rights
I have a big face.
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Toronto, ON, Canada
Previously
Wyoming, ON, Canada - Petrolia, ON, Canada - London, ON, Canada - Hamilton, ON, Canada - Brampton, ON, Canada - Sarnia, ON, Canada - Stoney Creek, ON, Canada