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You can move beyond the pain and get the life you want!
You can move beyond the pain and get the life you want!

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It's the start of a brand new year and you may be asking yourself a question that we hear all of the time...is healing from an affair REALLY possible?

No matter how impossible things may seem right now, we want to encourage you not to give up on your marriage too soon. Divorce may seem like the simplest route. It may to you, based on things that have been said and done, be the “only” route. But a theme that runs throughout our book is “It ain’t over, until it’s over.”

If you have at all loved your spouse, at anytime during your marriage (or courtship), reading the rest of this newsletter may be pivotal for your future happiness (and the happiness of your children if you have them).

1. DO NOT MAKE A MAJOR LIFE-ALTERING DECISION WHILE YOU ARE IN THE EMOTION OF THE MOMENT. Strong emotions impair judgment in the same way that alcohol impairs judgment. You may as well be making this decision while intoxicated. If the decision you are about to make is the right decision, it will still be the right decision three months from now.

To continue reading this article click on the link below:

http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=ITS4E&m=J0xfDAsUZMZWqX&b=oo5K2f_B7ngfHtnpmeiJPg

We know it can be very challenging to navigate through the healing journey alone and we also know that you need to heal whether your marriage does or not, so please feel free to call our office at 360-306-3367 or email us at info@beyondaffairs.com and we'd love to talk to encourage you for a few minutes and give you some hope!

We are believing 2017 can be YOUR year of healing and breakthrough!

We have been where you are and we can help...Anne & Brian Bercht

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UP & COMING SEMINAR SCHEDULE -

TAKE YOUR LIFE BACK RETREATS (for betrayed women only):
January 14-16, 2017- Charleston, SC STILL HAVE 2 SPOTS AVAILABLE!
April 8-10, 2017 - Las Vegas, NV
July 8-10, 2017 - Dallas, TX
October 13-15, 2017 - Newark, NJ

HEALING FROM AFFAIRS INTENSIVES FOR COUPLES:
March 24-26, 2017 – Charleston, SC
June 24-26, 2017 - Seattle, WA
September 9-11, 2017 - Newark, NJ
December 1-3, 2017 - Las Vegas, NV

Man of Honor Retreat (for all men):
September 29 - October 1, 2017 - Florissant, CO

“Before every man there lies a wide and pleasant road he thinks is right, but it ends in death.” – Proverbs 16:25

There lives today a man who is making millions helping people to have affairs. His billboards read: “Life is Short – Have an Affair.” Instead it should read:

Life is Short – An Affair Will Ruin What’s Left of It
Life is Short – An Affair Will Cause Your Kids to Hate You
Life is Short – An Affair is for Cowards
Life is Short – An Affair Will Leave You Broke
A Man of Honor Has an Affair WITH HIS WIFE

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How to survive the holidays after an affair by Anne and Brian Bercht

In case you missed our complimentary teleseminar on December 5, 2016 on how to survive the holidays after an affair by Anne and Brian Bercht we wanted to let you know it has now been added to our website.

http://beyondaffairs.com/blog/

Anne and Brian Bercht share key concepts on how to survive the holidays after an affair, especially if you an your spouse are trying to stay together. How should you handle Christmas gifts? How do you handle telling and being around family? What should you do to make sure your children’s holidays aren’t tarnished? Is it a good idea to put the affair recovery on hold for the holidays? Based on their personal experience and after working with hundreds of couples, they share tangible ideas of how to survive and hopefully thrive through the holidays.

The end of the teleseminar is opened up for questions from the audience and maybe the question you have been wanting to ask them is answered. We want to help you find hope in the holidays after an affair, whether you are healing your marriage or not, and help you find joy in this special season, even when you are hurting. Please know that you are not alone and you don’t have to go through the holidays suffering, please email us at info@beyondaffairs.com or call us at 360-306-3367 and we’d love to help you this holiday season.

How to survive the holidays after an affair by Anne and Brian Bercht

In case you missed our complimentary teleseminar on December 5, 2016 on how to survive the holidays after an affair by Anne and Brian Bercht we wanted to let you know it has now been added to our website.

http://beyondaffairs.com/blog/

Anne and Brian Bercht share key concepts on how to survive the holidays after an affair, especially if you an your spouse are trying to stay together. How should you handle Christmas gifts? How do you handle telling and being around family? What should you do to make sure your children’s holidays aren’t tarnished? Is it a good idea to put the affair recovery on hold for the holidays? Based on their personal experience and after working with hundreds of couples, they share tangible ideas of how to survive and hopefully thrive through the holidays.

The end of the teleseminar is opened up for questions from the audience and maybe the question you have been wanting to ask them is answered. We want to help you find hope in the holidays after an affair, whether you are healing your marriage or not, and help you find joy in this special season, even when you are hurting. Please know that you are not alone and you don’t have to go through the holidays suffering, please email us at info@beyondaffairs.com or call us at 360-306-3367 and we’d love to help you this holiday season.

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In case you weren't able to join us last week for our complimentary teleseminar on Overcoming Bitterness After Betrayal with Anne Bercht, we wanted to let you know that it was recorded and was just posted on our website. We encourage you to listen to the keys that Anne shares on how to get better and not bitter after an affair.

Here is the direct link to listen:

http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=ITS4E&m=J7JfsNuvUMZWqX&b=JDq9X..s7hvUtFMRQ6tn8g

You can GROW through what you are going through and we can help! Please feel safe to call our office today at 360-306-3367 or email us at info@beyondaffairs.com and we can show you the way to your total and complete healing. It is our hope to resource you so we want to make sure you know we offer seminars, provide coaching over the phone/Skype, offer free BAN support groups for betrayed spouses in some cities all over the world, DVD at home healing from affairs couple's program and much, much more through our website at www.beyondaffairs.com and www.beyondaffairsnetwork.com, so please let us help you.

It is a process and you don’t have to go through this process alone…we would be honored to be a part of your healing journey.

We hope you enjoy our most recent complimentary teleseminar and we want you to know that are believing the best for YOU! - Anne & Brian Bercht

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UP & COMING SEMINAR SCHEDULE - One of the ways we can help...we are already taking registrations for our 2017 seminars!

Healing From Affairs Intensive for Couples:
March 24-26, 2017 – Charleston, SC
June 24-26, 2017 - Seattle, WA
September 9-11, 2017 - Newark, NJ
December 1-3, 2017 - Las Vegas, NV

Take Your Life Back Retreats (for betrayed women):
January 14-16, 2017- Charleston, SC (day 1 starts at 9 a.m.)
April 8-10, 2017 - Las Vegas, NV (day 1 starts at 9 a.m.)
July 8-10, 2017 - Dallas, TX (day 1 starts a 9 a.m.)
October 13-15, 2017 - Newark, NJ (day 1 starts a 9 a.m.)

Man of Honor Retreat (for all men):
September 29 - October 1, 2017 - Florissant, CO


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We wanted to personally invite you to join us for our next COMPLIMENTARY TELESEMINAR on how to avoid bitterness after an affair...learn how you can get better and not bitter!

Date: Monday, November 7, 2016
Time: 6 pm pacific/7 pm mountain/8 pm central/9 pm eastern

We would love to hear from you before the teleseminar so feel free to call our office at 360-306-3367 or send an email to info@beyondaffairs.com.

We will send out the call in information in another newsletter on Monday, November 7, but please go ahead and save the date.

We look forward to being with you on Monday night and helping you heal - Anne & Brian Bercht

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UP & COMING SEMINAR SCHEDULE

Healing From Affairs Intensive for Couples:

November 12 – 14, 2016 – Charleston, SC LAST ONE FOR 2016! WE STILL HAVE A FEW OPENINGS!


Looking ahead...2017 SEMINAR SCHEDULE

Healing From Affairs Intensive for Couples:
March 24-26, 2017 – Charleston, SC
June 24-26, 2017 - Seattle, WA
September 9-11, 2017 - Newark, NJ
December 1-3, 2017 - Las Vegas, NV

Take Your Life Back Retreats (for betrayed women):
January 14-16, 2017- Charleston, SC (day 1 starts at 9 a.m.)
April 8-10, 2017 - Las Vegas, NV (day 1 starts at 9 a.m.)
July 8-10, 2017 - Dallas, TX (day 1 starts a 9 a.m.)
October 13-15, 2017 - Newark, NJ (day 1 starts a 9 a.m.)

Man of Honor Retreat (for all men):
September 29 - October 1, 2017 - Florissant, CO

Passionate Life Seminars, USA Office: 8842 Goldeneye Lane, Blaine, WA 98230 Phone: 360-306-3367 Website: www.beyondaffairs.com

In this week's newsletter Anne Bercht shares on how to talk about painful issues after an affair and why it is important to be able to talk about these issues.

There are 3 stages of disclosure:

The first stage is an adversarial truth-seeking inquisition. There is usually a lot of animosity going on in this phase. This is the phase where the unfaithful spouse feels like they are on trial, and that they are being attacked. While it is a normal phase we go through, and of course, there ARE going to be heightened emotions when working through an affair, this adversarial, accusing phase is not beneficial for healing, beyond the fact that it allows the betrayed spouse an outlet for some of the anger, and there does need to be room for this release.

To continue to read Anne's article...

http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=ITS4E&m=JOoHLCrlsMZWqX&b=nKJHjrcboDmHSiSZwdg27w

We would love to hear from you. Please feel free to call our office at 360-306-3367 or email as at info@beyondaffairs.com. We have been exactly where you are (BUT WE ARE BEYOND IT NOW). We have devoted the last 13 years to relationship and affair recovery education, and have helped hundreds to heal. We can help you too!

We are believing the best for YOU! Anne & Brian Bercht

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UP & COMING SEMINAR SCHEDULE

Healing From Affairs Intensive for Couples:

November 12 – 14, 2016 – Charleston, SC LAST ONE FOR 2016! WE STILL HAVE A FEW OPENINGS!


Looking ahead...2017 SEMINAR SCHEDULE

Healing From Affairs Intensive for Couples:
March 24-26, 2017 – Charleston, SC
June 24-26, 2017 - Seattle, WA
September 9-11, 2017 - Newark, NJ
December 1-3, 2017 - Las Vegas, NV

Take Your Life Back Retreats (for betrayed women):
January 14-16, 2017- Charleston, SC
April 8-10, 2017 - Las Vegas, NV
July 8-10, 2017 - Dallas, TX
October 13-15, 2017 - Newark, NJ

Man of Honor Retreat (for all men):
September 29 - October 1, 2017 - Florissant, CO

Passionate Life Seminars, USA Office: 8842 Goldeneye Lane, Blaine, WA 98230 Phone: 360-306-3367 Website: www.beyondaffairs.com

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Should I Stay or Go After an Affair?

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October 16, 2016 Teleseminar – Should I Stay or Go After an Affair?
We apologize that the beginning of this teleseminar has quite a bit of static on the line, but it was too good not to post and share with all of you. The static does get better as the teleseminar goes on so it’s definitely worth listening to.

Anne Bercht shares great information and insight on how to determine if you should stay or go after there has been an affair in your marriage. She also answers questions and discusses how to handle if there has been abuse in a marriage as that will play a big part in one’s decision to leave the marriage. Anne walks you through determining factors, using wisdom, insight and what helped with her personal decision to stay in her marriage as well as clients that her and Brian have worked with over the years and how they decided whether they should stay or go.

This is really an amazing teleseminar that will help YOU make this very big decision.

We encourage you to reach out to our office as well at info@beyondaffairs.com or by calling our office at 360-306-3367 as we want to support you in your healing journey and we also know that making that decision may also require some coaching or attending a seminar. This is a big decision to make and we encourage you make it from a healthy, healed place and not an emotional reaction after learning of your spouse’s affair. No matter what you decide, we know that there is happiness waiting for you on the other side of your decision. We look forward to helping you discover the life you want and desire!

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This week's article "Should I Stay or Should I Go?" and DON'T MISS TONIGHT'S COMPLIMENTARY TELESEMINAR!!!

There are times in life when we are in-between. We are like Linus in the old Charlie Brown cartoon without our blanket. Our life as we had known it has ended, a door has closed and we cannot go back. The past is the past. Yet the future? What will become of my future? I do not know. My future has become the great unknown. Can I have happiness? I am in-between past and future. I am like a trapeze artist who has just let go of the trapeze, somersaulting through mid air. Will I catch the new trapeze on the other side? When you are in this uncertain place, being patient and taking things one day at a time makes the present situation more tolerable and the future easier with the passage of time.

To continue to read Anne's article...

http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=ITS4E&m=I_a3TWVxQMZWqX&b=80ELqwE3jdyw4DrP4FxKfg

Please join us tonight for a COMPLIMENTARY TELESEMINAR - HOW & WHEN DO YOU DECIDE WHETHER TO STAY OR GO?

Date: Monday, October 17, 2016
Time: 6 pm pacific/7 pm mountain/8 pm central/9 pm eastern
Call-in number: 218-844-1930
Access Code: 688685#

We would love to hear from you. Please feel free to call our office at 360-306-3367 or email as at info@beyondaffairs.com. We have been exactly where you are and we can help!


UP & COMING SEMINAR SCHEDULE

Healing From Affairs Intensive for Couples:

November 12 – 14, 2016 – Charleston, SC LAST ONE FOR 2016! WE STILL HAVE A FEW OPENINGS!


Looking ahead...2017 SEMINAR SCHEDULE

Healing From Affairs Intensive for Couples:
March 24-26, 2017 – Charleston, SC
June 24-26, 2017 - Seattle, WA
September 9-11, 2017 - Newark, NJ
December 1-3, 2017 - Las Vegas, NV

Take Your Life Back Retreats (for betrayed women):
January 14-16, 2017- Charleston, SC (day 1 starts at 9 a.m.)
April 8-10, 2017 - Las Vegas, NV (day 1 starts at 9 a.m.)
July 8-10, 2017 - Dallas, TX (day 1 starts a 9 a.m.)
October 13-15, 2017 - Newark, NJ (day 1 starts a 9 a.m.)

Man of Honor Retreat (for all men):
September 29 - October 1, 2017 - Florissant, CO

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