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Belle Femme
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Married and having sex, but still blogging about the virgin/whore dichotomy!
Married and having sex, but still blogging about the virgin/whore dichotomy!

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When Words Aren't Enough
My mom is dying. Just typing that doesn't seem real. Doesn't feel possible. My smart, funny, beautiful, loving, humble, gracious mother sang "Happy birthday" to my twin brother and me for the last time tonight. Barring a miracle, today was my last birthday ...

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Why Do Stupid People Comment on My Blog?
I don't have time tonight to address in detail the latest incident of stupidity in the comments, but rest assured, I will. And rest assured, if you are polite when you disagree with me, or you are polite when you are confused with what I write, or you are p...

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Stop Blaming Technology for Your Problems
A former colleague of Beau's, and a friend of both of ours, posted an article from Thought Catalog to Facebook. Like basically everything else on Thought Catalog, "This is How We Date Now" is full of generalizations while taking zero responsibility for your...

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Let's Talk About (Married) Sex, Baby!
Beau and I have been married almost nine months already. It feels like we've been married forever, but our wedding also feels like just yesterday. Married sex has been great. I'm a huge fan of coitus! I've definitely learned a few things, though, that no on...

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Honesty is Not an Ultimatum
This is fast and disorganized because I'm tired, but I'm inspired by two recent Internet interactions. The first is this relationship thread on Reddit . Basically, a young couple has been together for 3+ years and discussed marriage. The dude told his girlf...

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Extended Thoughts on Coitus and Consent
Tonight I joined director Therese Shechter for a Q&A following a screening of her kickass documentary How to Lose Your Virginity . As is often true when I answer questions regarding my thoughts on sex, virginity, and everything in-between, I always wish I c...

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Extended Thoughts on Coitus and Consent
Tonight I joined director Therese Shechter for a Q&A following a screening of her kickass documentary How to Lose Your Virginity . As is often true when I answer questions regarding my thoughts on sex, virginity, and everything in-between, I always wish I c...

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How I Used Sex Toys to Prepare for an Awesome Wedding Night
Contains Amazon Affiliate links. No, I will not know if you decide to buy the same sex toys. That data is not tracked. If you caught me on Fusion's airing of How to Lose Your Virginity via their show "Documental," then you also had the chance to hear me des...

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Sequel to How to Lose Your Virginity and Other News*
Out of everything I've accomplished with Finding My Virginity, being a part of the amazing documentary How to Lose Your Virginity is my second-best achievement. (Supporting survivors of sexual assault and giving them a safe space to talk is my best achievem...

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I Successfully Completed the Summer Book Challenge!
August was a busy book month for me. Any day now, I will have my first column published, under my own name, reviewing fairy tale books. It was supposed to go up at the end of August, but the website owner suffered a hand injury, and posted that she and her ...
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