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*Change is a Scary Thing*

But I think this statement rings very true. Live your life to the fullest you can!

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So live life that when you reach the end of it...You have no regrets.
 
The depths of thought in the responses is astounding..
 
Au contrare' Regrets cause you to stand still..
 
That's totally true, but a bit pointless a the same time. When making big changes, you're scared you will regret making them....
 
If a man like happiness. And he face his problems so nicely then he never scare anyone 
 
Regret because you went ahead with the big life change? Totally.
 
I have a lot of big life changes to make! But where to start?
 
Sleep on it guys.  You'll forget this quote by tomorrow and be back where you started.  I'm not trying to be negative about it, just real.  Words are one thing, actions are another.
 
seems like buryin some real world facts in life. you can't get along well without regrets...ok fine its part of life n most time sums 2 b the turnin point
 
Regrets if you do! Regrets if you don't! If you only think of regrets you'll get nothing done, have no fun and still be were you are now! Change can be good or bad but never regret it!
 
The Great Leader knows that people is ready to change, to change their life for the better.The skillful leader know how to change people with positive effect and result. Change is possible. Change for the better. No regret. If we're responsible for it.
 
 hey my name is token wut up and all i got to say is you are fine looking woman don't let change get in the way of that 
 
nice, thanks for sharing.
 
I don't like changes much, but yes if need be I can adapt. But I really hate regrets, accept n adjust is to my belief a key to happiness.
 
If you always have to make decisions in life, but in a responsible manner so as not to regret later. Responsible means measuring all the alternatives ... greetings.
 
Well 2 make it in life risk should be taken but we have 2 be sure that the outcome what the risk. 
 
That's y I always say never regret what you do in life take it as a lesson learned.
 
You know, I agree with this. It IS true
 
pta nai ki likhya yaar bt vadiya likhya
 
lika he to kuch vadiya hi likegana.
 
Change is the only way to your dreams
 
and your telling me I've had a big change in my life and trust me it's scary
 
Scary is when boogers won't come out, cause they been in there too long
 
All life changes are learnng lessons, untill you learn it fully, it will go on repeatating, perhaps with more hardships!
 
Regret is an awful thing, as it will always be on your mind,So make that change!!
 
Change is like throwing a stone into a still pool! A lot of waves at the start then still again! But you know it will never be the same again and so do people that the waves you put touched! When we make a change in your life, we also make a change in the life's of the people around use and it's the people around use that make use sometime regret the most!
 
Make the  most of what you have, you never know what life will throw at you.
 
"Some think it's holding on that makes one strong; sometimes it's letting go."  Sylvia Robinson
sara B
 
i like it
 
 how do you do? where do u live?
 
"Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable." Sidney A Harris
 
People on their death beds rarely have regrets about the things they did.  They regret the things they didn't have the courage to do.
 
It is what life is. There are always some regret in our life.
 
What if you get both?! That's when life gets intresting!!!
 
According to holy Zarathustra(Iranian prophet before Islam religion)  words, we should just observe and act in our life good thoughts, good deeds, good words.
 
WE LOOK BACK AT THE THINGS WE DID NOT DOAND THAT'S WHAT HAUNTS US.... NOT THOSE THINGS WE AT LEAST TRIED OUT...
 
I get the point, but I've never heard of a horror movie where they run screaming from regret. But change? Listened to a politician lately?
 
nice choice of words. "regret" is a pretty strong word.
i like this attitude. changes r'nt so bad. they're just new challenges.
 not being afraid of them saves a lot of regret.
 
Right scary is the new black or white / seems like everything which could excite (fears or hopes ) is scary - forget the scariness and go for the excitement 
 
if you never do it then you will never know if it's as scary as it seems
 
Refuse witness protection program
 
wats the fun in life if we dont regret and dont face stuff scarier
 
"Of all the words of mice and men, the saddest are, 'It might have been.' " -Kurt Vonnegut
 
i know this from personal experince
 
Trying not to regret being a newbie in the SEO world. I am so happy to of come across your blog. Look forward to more great tips!
 
Well just a minute ago there was a roach stuck to the couch 
 
Albeit it's scary but this is an inevitable truth CHANGE is the only CONSTANT.
 
Change is a Scary Thing
this is very dangerous things
 
that is called courage
 
Change into productive idea not on awful...
 
To bad some of us not rich to do all that !!
Lena M
 
Your so right Michael - make sure before you jump into making big changes to your life. You may just make
The BIGGEST mistake of all otherwise.
 
If we see to the very thing in wrong view , the regret was inevitable
 
that is sooo true but change can be good or bad its just the way you look at life if you look at it from a bad way you are not going to have as much fun as the people who think on the happyer sid of life. so think happy
 
The things that is very far from us is the past cause we can never go back..the closes things from us is death. Regret is a mistake..mistake is because u are gain new experience to ur self. Experience take u somewhere. Somewhere u actually want to be. Be positive.
 
That is so true because even though the thought of big life changes are scary the feeling of regret is worse!
 
I've been there and still regret it to this day unfortunately.
 
COURAGE is saying I will try again tomorrow!
 
keyur patel thats procrastination! When you get bucked off the horse, you get back on right then.
 
It is always better to go for the change and incase of failure regret it,instead of regretting without doing anything.
 
Go for it!! Jump off your comfort zone an FLY!!!
 
I don't get it, making a big live change can = regret also. Just wear life like a loose garment.
 
This is so true,my family an i are packing up an moving to a new state its now or regret not doing it!
 
Oh so true.and dont look back.
 
Change is needed to help you become the person you want to be and need to be. Every step of the way. Change to me is like a real friend sometime you like them, sometime you don't and sometime they surprise you. That's the way I see it. The only problem I have with change is that some people try to stop you from making the change because they don't want you to change. 
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Ahhh the enemy... regret.  If you could have seen 20/20 before you did them, then maybe you wouldn't have done so many things and yet those things gave you the most valuable lessons.  Live not with your eyes behind you.  Look at your now and your future for the exciting things to be.
 
...or perhaps, look for joy and beauty, and let your heart guide you among the accomplishments and picadileos.
 
Oh yes... I can relate with that word regret but then change is essential to move on in life.
 
Some things you can have regret for if you didnt decide to make the change somethimes people make the changes for you. And even then some things no one has control of.
Chu Nam
 
I agree with that
 
The greatest rush is overcoming your greatest fear. And mine is change.
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Sometimes it's possible to make the big scary life change and still regret it.
 
I regret so many things in my life like making my friends mad and sad losing friends gossiping etc.
 
All of this is making me of 2 movies Shirley Valentine with Pauline Collins and Last Holiday with Queen Latifah!
 
But it's also equally possible to regret the big changes. So in many ways, there's allot to be said about being happy with what you already have  ;-)
 
Wow couldnt of thought that myself
 
but change is something we can not do without, it is inevitable.
 
i hate regret.... the woulda, shoulda, couldas, drive me crazy!! Its like captain hindsight on Southpark!!!!! LOL!!!! 
 
Everyone has regrets about shoulda done this with my life ..to ease the Regret is to learn from those past mistakes...but most do not learn ...so we all live with Regrets!! it's a fact of life.
 
I regret not sharing this already.
 
Regrets only............
 
Have always been making one big change after another. Each time I move to live in a new country, it's always scary. Am about to move to another one soon. After so many times, is it still scary? Absolutely! But I don't want to look back, when on my deathbed, and think: what if...? 
 
This is highly inspiring, so true.
 
Vive como piensas o terminaras pensando como vives..!
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of evrything I done in the past, the regret seems to hunt my mind for years
Yu Far
 
Very true
Cass XD
 
that is very true.
 
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Love Kenzi
 
Yap, real niggah never scarier in life.
 
Regret is so much more scarier than change. Well said.
 
This is so appropriate for me today
 
yes .. live life too the fullest.. so you wont regret it at the end..
 
Time and space changes per second.  Not changing is un-natural.  To me, change is not scary.  Not changing is an abomination and a dissonance as we r saying the world is perfect when we could see it is not.
 
Yes, the inability to change your past or your present, which is the result of it. Regret and guilt are the scariest monsters in one's life.
 
Amanda but y is change d only constant think in nature?
 
Indeed it is. Scary everyone likes stability which pretty much means little change. You summed it up pretty well though, after all change is about the only that stays the same as it happens with every passing day
 
If you want to make peace, don't talk to your friends, talk to your enemies. 
 
So don't change, because you might regret it?
 
I am not afraid of regret ... I just hate it.
Big changes - I am afraid of.
Its the fear of the unknown.
 
I love this, someone once said to me that it's better to regret things you have done than regretting the things you never did but wanted to. Life is about learning, right until until the day we die but if we never try, we never learn.
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That is so true because you can live with life changes but you cant live with regret!
 
always question your motives
 
True!! I've never regreted the big changes in my life even when they didn't turn out my way...
 
Don't worry Stewart,..you'll get out of it
 
I am going to "REGRET" saying this but it is true.
 
hardly any feelings in this room loling right now
 
damm thats really true
 
Ms. Amanda, are you trying to tell us something here?
 
That would seem to indicate that you have never regretted any of the changes you have made in your life......  
 
I agree with u, even if u think or decide to chang sth in ur life it seems scary, wt if we really did!
 
well, you're absolutely pretty right. you may say that i am on the both case of that. sometimes, i think to change, but the world seems not in my side at that time. and, after that, i'll regret everything i did.
yeah, that's me.

but i would like to change much. i know that it must be from my self, but... i don't know how?

any suggestion?
thank you for reading my bad story (^_^)
 
Little changes become big changes they all add up. 
 
Right on !!!!thx 4 sharing :) so so true !!!
 
but I love "regret". It's also a part of my life. :-)
Js Woo
 
That's why I resigned my job. 
 
Regret makes use human, without it we'll all be psycho! LOL! But get real change is all around use! If it wasn't we would never have become human! So learn and regret if you want it's all apart of being human!
 
HI i am anand  i licke to make friendship with you your are so nice
 
Change is the need of nature.
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We won't survive without change....which is the only permanent thing, change
 
Change in reality is choice! You choose to do something or you don't. But every-time you make a choice, you make a change. You choose to try something new. You choose to get in shape. You choose a new hobby. You choose to cook something you've never cooked before. I can go on forever!
Jun Sun
 
What if you regret about the change you made? To me that is the scariest thing of all. :)
 
Whoever never regret of the change after changing it?
 
Dreamed that life should be joy. I woke up and realized that life is effortless. I worked and i realized that the effort is joy.Tagore.
 
I try to follow this way of thinking when it comes to change and if I do regret it I take responsibility for it, let it go and live my life!
Henry James
"It's time to start living the life you've imagined."
Starhawk
"To practice magic is to bear the responsibility for having a vision, for we work magic by envisioning what we want to create."
Ray Bradbury
"First you jump off the cliff and you build your wings on the way down."
Thomas Merton
"Perhaps I am stronger than I think." William Shakespeare
"We are such stuff as dreams are made on."
Zimbabwe proverb
"If you can walk, you can dance. If you can talk, you can sing."
Vincent Van Gogh
"If you hear a voice within you say "you cannot paint," than by all means paint, and that voice will be silenced."
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not getting stuck in regrete is is like pulling oneself out of a well!
 
indeed is something that u cannot expect to happen,while the are things you expect to happen
 
porque de tal manera amo Dios al mundo que a dado a su hijo unigenito para que todo aquel que en el cree no se pierda mas tenga vida eterna. no cres que esto es lindo? TOMALO EN CONSIDERACION DIOS TE AMA.  
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that would be..i agree..poooff...
 
This fits a couple of weeks ago I wasn't sure how things in my life would work out but sometimes u don't know what ur missing till u get out of the dead end routine & start something new
 
sorry to hear that looks like you are doing well, good luck!
 
Wow! Thanks! That inspiration came hours before I absolutely NEEDED IT! WOW AGAIN!
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