I don't know who you are, but I love you--for answering. Been there. I'm not a partner, had one monetized video, youtube put up a banner in my uploader asking if I'd like to monetize my channel--clicked the button and got to step 3 of 4 (confirmation). It said read the terms well before clicking confirm. I did. When I went back in to click confirm, the button was frozen and a new banner said my tab was disabled--no explanation. My adsense account is in good standing. So is my youtube account. But since I didn't quite make it through the partner process I'm not allowed to use the contact form you linked. I had to go to the forum--where the inmates are running the asylum. Not even a Nurse Ratchet in sight.
Finally, I gave up--I realized that I wasn't going to get help. http://groups.google.com/a/googleproductforums.com/forum/#!category-topic/youtube/accounts-sign-in-and-sign-up/eb0e-61Fsr0
My Adsense is one of the original legacy accounts, not my gmail account. I had to confirm it through email. It's all there, on that page. My last hoorah--with jpegs too!
But I've gotten a bunch of great offers from new services, so... best to move forward rather than spinning my wheels. I did however check a box on the known issues page. Going down fighting :P
And now... I'm late with a Red Hot Chili Peppers concert review. They rocked! Reminded me of why I do what I do--keeping the flame.
Thanks again G to the A. You Rock!