What's one thing you'd like to change about your physical appearance?Because I know the secret to becoming beautiful overnight.
There must be something, even one thing, even if you don't share it. And if you don't, then you're really different than us normal people who would change, at least one thing if if given the chance.
For most of us, it's just a passing fancy, something we might do if given the chance, and we really like looking pretty and wearing nice stuff and make-up once in a while. That's normal, but for others, it's an obsession.
There are people out there who don't like themselves, who hate the way they look and every action of theirs is governed by their poor esteem of themselves. They might spend too much time trying to "fix" themselves, they might spend hours in a day, yes, you read that right, hours in front of mirrors and they might have attacks of becoming anti-social and they'll have problems with maintaining healthy relationships. Yup, I am talking about body dysmorphic disorder
and it's something that is affecting lots and lots of people these days, especially girls.So why do we need to look good? Because it makes us happy.But how does this... disorder even start? Does this mean you actually *have some physical deformity?
YES. You may have a deformity, but other people with such deformities still look better than you. Why not you?The right answer is a poor self esteem
which can be the result of several factors that can't be discussed in one article. It could be issues growing up and one bad thought about yourself leads to another and one comment from someone you care about leading you into your quicksand of self doubt. It festers over years and then one day, becomes too much. Usually for teenagers, it starts due to peer pressure.So how do we get rid of a low self esteem?
It's not as simple as just getting rid of it. You can't get rid of it even if you want to, but that doesn't mean it's not possible. For a start,think about someone you truly admire and respect with all yourheart.Do you admire that person because of their beauty?
Probably not. So try to be like that person, and you will begin to respect yourself. That's the first step to a good self esteem.People will treat you the way you treat yourself.
If you look into the mirror and see a loser, everyone will see the same thing. If you're happy with what you do, if you're trying to be the person you respect most, if people love you for who you are, therewill be no empty place in your heart that needs to be filled withthe guaranteed assurance that you're beautiful.
You will see all the good in yourself and in others. You will feel beautiful.
Another thing about being beautiful is how the society and themedia decides the standards of beauty for you.There is this standard stick figure trend going on these days.
No, you do NOT need to be very thin, or thin at all to look beautiful. I'm not talking about being obese, but I'm talking about being chubby or like how most normal women who aren't starving supermodels should look like. Real women. Now, here is a question just for the ladies
I'd like to ask all my girlfriends whether or not they have damaged their hair using heat.
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because I KNOW how frizzy, unruly hair looks like and most of us are guilty of using heat to fix it and it looks great and silky and wow but then it becomes like an addiction and we can't do without the staightener or blow drier. Without it, the natural form of our hair is like onion roots. Well, if you need any tips on how to get the perfect, healthy, bouncy, curly or wavy hair without damaging it with heat (which is usually our hair type) you can message me. Even if you have damaged straight hair, I can help. CURLY AND WAVY HAIR HAS CHARACTER. DON'T FOLLOW THECROWD.I am not an expert but if anyone needs beauty tips, just messageme.
I could start a beauty tip collection for all I know.
And now for some beauty quotes.It is time for parents to teach early on that in diversity there isbeauty and there is strength.
-Maya AngelouBeauty is only skin deep. Ugly goes deep to the bone.
Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.
I’m not cute or built to suit a fashion model’s size
But when I start to tell them,
They think I’m telling lies.
It’s in the reach of my arms,
The span of my hips,
The stride of my step,
The curl of my lips.
I’m a woman
I should make my own too...Beauty is seen by the eyes and then felt in the heart. Even ifthe heart doesn't accept it, they eyes will insist.True beauty is felt in the heart and even the eyes can't deny it.