+Vivienne Gucwa , yes! I have a killer interview with Clayton about it, too, that I have been waiting to post! I can't wait to share it with you guys! I bet you have an interesting take on the portraitist aspect of it!
+A.V. Flox finally someone who just said no to ´member´ :) The most ridiculous word in the English language and no, these don´t come with a membership card. Due to the T&C I can´t expand on it, but girl what a complicated hangout if you really need to obey by all the rules and still talk about sex.
It's already got several folks on it so unless the person involved wants to pop up more publicly I won't notify new people to it.
More that I kept getting invited to this happysex thing last night while watching someone on Hangout get phone calls because her stalker posted her number and address repeatedly on 4chan. The discrepancy was sigh-making. :(
Agreed, although as part of the discussion we all recognized that this sort craves that, because he desperately wants to paint himself as the victim (of her, of women, of society, of everything except his own asshattery), so even the mere threat of retaliation against him gives him fuel to keep going.
No. We acknowledged that this guy (and many of his sort) won't get tired. At best he might find another target, but that sucks too.
There is no good answer. That, in and of itself, is the problem.
Frankly nothing's going to change until society does. When this shit is a) funny to some, b) entitlement to many, and c) inconsequential to authorities, we are left with various coping elements here and there but no good framework to stop the nonsense.
You don't like it when people label or pigeonhole you, so I'll ask you not to imply that I'm sitting here doing nothing simply because I recognize after decades of direct and indirect experience that vigilantism doesn't help.